What’s an expanded definition of sex you wish you could live by?

I love pleasing my wife. Whetr it be oral sex or penetrative…seein her feel good and reaching orgasm brings me so much joy and really turns me on.

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To me, sex is the foundation of a healthy loving relationship that includes other equally important values

Being intimate together.

I want to feel more confident and in control. I fear that I’d be disrespectful, so I hold back. I also want us to both enjoy the experience and for it to feel balanced as well. Whether it’s me in control or her.

Lots of touching and skin tracing. All over eachothers belly, shoulders, arms, legs, slowly and so softly.

Sweating and loving together

Getting completely lost in the moment

Being initimate and vulnerable with someone. Both being caught up in the experience!

Feeling free unjusged to allow my deviant side out to play.

I want to make love and then be a sexual savage at the same time

Sex for me is about using physical touch to create a feeling of pleasure, desirability, and authenticity for both partners. I like the feeling of making my partner feel confident in themselves and the relationship as well as physical pleasure

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Sex is connection and expressing oneself physically. That include the ends of the spectrum of being aggressive and submissive. I hope the be able to channel both sides of that spectrum without having to feel for eithe hyper- or hypo-masculinity

Sex and sports are the only moments when I feel free to be whoever I want to be

I want to be filthy and naughty during sex, particularly verbally - just for fun, without consequences

For me, sex should be about meaningful connection, or at least about play and fun. It should be less about a particular destination like penetration or something, and more about exploring connection and pleasure through the senses with another person, exploring the dynamics of giving and receiving in mutual sensuality with genuine sincerity of desire expressed through our touch.

As long as everyone has a good time a cums (or feels sexually satisfied when done), that’s good sex

Having fun laughing and being relaxed around others (even multiple others) during sex

An intimate connection between 2 people that oozes love, pleasure, understanding, sense of belonging to each other

Deep connection with your partner.

Sex is where I give my girlfriend maximum enjoyment and sexual pleasure, but I still manage to orgasm too. I have found this difficult in the past because I was circumcised late in life, and the sensation is different to before.