Recently I had a laugh with a partner while getting down to it. Just giggles every so often and it really helped to break down the self serious nature of sex
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Enjoyment, stress relief, intimacy
Feeling completely accepted
A way to get pleasure and release stress. A communicative moment , a moment of sharing. An attempt to fusion
Make love. Be intimate. Explore.
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Connection, arousal, enjoyment and care
connection, bonding thru action, anticipation, love, stress-free, safe zone, intimacy, mutuality
Connecting with no distractions. Love and feeling wanted or desired. Stress free zone with only us two
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Feeling connected.Feeling love
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To feel connected and to explore each others bodies
To unashamedly enjoy each others bodies without fear of embarrassment or ridicule and to be bold enough to go for it, whatever ‘it’ may be, with permission of course.
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Tasting my partner all over, giving her pleasure, having a party, playing like Greek gods, love and orgies everywhere, dancing sexually with lots of girls, telling them how good it feels to be naked in front of them, touching them and fucking them!
I love being in control. All aspects of it… I’ve had a couple of BDSM relationships and it’s where I’ve felt my most “me”… it takes a long time and a ton trust to develop… I don’t talk about it for fear of judgement or labels
What I want to expand my definition of sex to is to have fun. To be okay with playing around with each others body. To feel comfortable with touching ourselves and not feeling obligated to serve someone else but passionate to play around. Also the consensual predatory thing sounded great too.
Being more sexually aggressive. Some guys I’m into want to be dominated and I’m down to go for it. But also cuddling and stuff is nice.
Sex is where 90 % of our intimacy comes from and almost all of our affection. Not having sex because I can’t get it up is syphoning off the last of what’sthere as well as not refilling it. I jjut feel like not being able to have sex is draining intimacy affection and even the strength in our relationship. And without it not only is it getting drained it’s not refilling.
I don’t want to be aggressive or submissive, I want us both to go into sex moving at the same pace together. I’ve found with my last few (long-term, female) sexual partners, that I am, by default, expected to be in the driving seat. Post Me Too and similar things, I find myself over-checking and spoiling the flow. Walking the tightrope of confidence vs. doubt is tricky and then doesn’t leave me enough headspace to enjoy what’s happening.
I want sex without gendered roles.
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To be desired, to not always be in control or feel like I need to be in control. To have fun and be free with it, without worrying that if I don’t instigate it, that it won’t happen. I have to allow it to happen and check in how i’m feeling, not just if the other person is enjoying it.
My way of expressing my love to my special somebody in a way that is unique to me. It’s how i celebrate my love and express that gratitude and love for her
Being able to laughnd crack jokes. To take all he pressure off of both to be something. To explore and play and have fun. To move around a lot one moment and stay very still and focused another. To switch positionsand not feel like I have to be dominating and initiating everything and only having penetrative sex when we are both very very turned on and wantingit. And if it doesn’thappen making that Conleyemotikaly neutral for botha