Bed Buddy vs Random Hook Up

Yesterday I fooled around with a bed buddy, and I had the toughest time staying hard despite the desire. Today by chance I had an unexpected, random hook up and I got hard immediately and came in minutes. Is this an example of me psyching myself out, or is it something else entirely?

Firstly whatโ€™s a bed buddy? and yeah definitely something psychological

Friends with benefits I assume

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Hey without getting too psychological it may be that the second partner was more exciting erotically for you than the bed Buddy. I bet itโ€™s nothing physically at issue with you!

Correct. I didnโ€™t want my comment to be deleted or censored for saying f*** buddy lol

It was the most censored way I could think of saying f*** buddy at that time. lol