My inner coach is the leader I am at work. The one that others look up and listen to. If I can encourage them, I can surely encourage and support myself.
My inner cosh wears sunnies and is buff. He speaks in a confident arab voice
He was someone else at first, but in the end he became me and reminded me that I CAN and DO get hard. I just need to remember that, no matter how hard that may be.
Im a good enough person to be happy and have fun
My inner coach is like my sister / mother, it’s my core - the same kindness I try to spread to others, it spreads to me.
Inner critic: I’m so nervous and I’m afraid that I am going to fail this time again. Coach - no you’re going to experience and enjoy the best part of your day, and you don’t need to worry about it.
And the coach punches the inner critic.
My inner critic tries to tell me how I’m wasting others time. My coach tells me that I am allowed to feel good. It’s ok to enjoy things.
So grateful for this exercise. Very glad to have a counter to my inner critic.
Inner critic reminded me of all the times I failed in bed. Inner coach pointed out that there have been many successes when I’m in the right mindset and situation, and that it has never been 100% bad
My critic and coach are me as I see myself but the while the coach is logical, kind, and supportive, the critic is a small, scared voice who wants me to remain inert and safe.
It’s me in a confident and firm voice.
Inner critic is a weasel and my coach is a wise elephant who just shakes his head at the weasel’s antics
My inner critic said, if you can’t get hard once, it will happen again and again, plus you have to use a condom because you don’t want to get sexually ill. But my inner coach told him that I have always been able to achieve everything, he also said that I am hard in the mornings, that I am practicing putting on the condom by staying hard and that I am changing the mentality to get hard when I have sex.
Inner critic says that I will fail and mess up. He is a snide, sarcastic version of myself. The inner coach is me when I’m standing up for what I believe in - confident, bright, non-anxious.
My inner critic was as usual critical and bringing up my recent troubles. But my inner coach being like a big brother who’s in my corner reminded me of my successes that I had a while back as well as breaking down the additional hardship and other breakthroughs I have made, even while I was struggling with this or perhaps shedding light why I was struggling with sexual wellbeing.
My inner critic said I won’t be able to get hard and please my partner, so why bother. My inner coach said I have an awesome cock and am more than capable of pleasing my partner.
My inner coach reminds me of the things that I have overcome and/or accomplished, whilst my inner critic reminds me of past failures. My inner coach tells me that I can do it, I can overcome this as I have before
The critic is disguised as the trusted voice of reason, the coach is the actual voice of reason. The coach feels softer deeper and stronger.
My inner critic is myself, constantly reminding me of bad past encounters and telling me that I will never be able to get and stay hard, my coach is only describable as someone familiar but at the same time distant, standing off to the side and talking with a firm, strong voice
My inner coach is someone who says that sex is meant to be fun and enjoyable.
My inner critic is someone who thinks sex is work and that if I don’t perform there will be consequences.