My inner coach said “what you think may not be what you believe in, and what you believe in may not be true” as these words work like amplified sound waves and blasted my inner critic away. Quite comical to imagine that, almost like a fight scene taking place at a vast, open ground with canyons and rock mountains all around.
My coach reminded me that my problem is the inner critic, and that it can and will be overcome , ignored and reprogrammed
My inner coach reminded me that my inner critic hasn’t always been so over powering. That this is something new. Reminded me of the times where it had no power over me. Showed me it’s possible to get back there again.
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The critic was one point in space, while the coach was everywhere like the critic was being isolated
The inner critic was a loud influx of anxiety and screaming and failures. The coach responded by clarifying how small this feeling can be, and that I’ve had pleasant sexual encounters before when I stop using porn. The coach reassured me of my confidence and efforts to be fit and healthy and my critic relaxed itself.
The inner critic said “why would she want you” and the inner coach said “why wouldn’t she want you” and “girls like men of all types but your tall, handsome, kind and normal”
Inner critic said you pussy, you can,'t get up you are weak and you are gonna cum without even hetting hard. My inner coach said : this bot fucks like a horse, have you seen how hard he gets and how long he fucks, girls would be crying. You are joking.
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Erection was achieved, and penetrative sex was successfully achieved with Kim.
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Inner critic said you’re not gonna get hard this weekend and then she will tell everyone and ghost you. Inner coach said who tf is this guy, we have been on the mojo grind and we are so back baby. I have sex to enjoy it and have fun. We are so back and this weekend is the weekend!
My inner critic Said, “You can’t do this”
My coach, one of the sand people from star wars said, “Ahhh, arrggghh, aaaargghh”, like sand people do, and the inner critic scurried away, but like a rat kept trying to interfere, but there were too many sand people, and they won out the argument.
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the inner critic worried about whether I’d get hard and stay hard. the inner coach just said, “don’t worry, you got this. the body knows what to do”
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IC - are you going to perform today or is it going to happen again? Coach - you’ve had sex thousands of times before, you got this!
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My inner coach reminded my inner critic of how far I’ve already come and that failure is part of any growth process. We’re on the right track
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Inner critic told me that if I don’t hurry up and stick it in, I’ll lose my erection and disappoint my partner. Inner coach told me that the desire I have to be intimate is always there and that stress can just be an obstacle to it and worry and anxiety can be diminished by focusing/returning to that desire and substitute that stress with eagerness and openness
Inner critic told me that all she has to do is touch it and you’ll come and disappoint partner . Inner coach just focused on the positives and I won’t know till I try and be more intimate
Inner critic told me that I don’t last long enough. Inner coach said that I’m experiencing pleasure, and so is my partner - and that is all that matters.
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Critic sees me staring at my naked partner and tells me i’ll never be able to have sex with her. My coach tells me that i’m free to cum inside her as much as I like.
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Inner critic said I’m not lovable. Coach reminded of all the ways that can’t be true.
My inner critic and inner cheerleader were mainly silent, but showed me parts of myself that i constantly bring myself down for. My inner cheerleader showed me that my efforts to better myself are not in vein. that i’m glowing and working towards a purposeful path. My tiny but mighty inner critic drove away the inner critic.