My inner coach told me i have a beautiful penis that feels amazing, my inner critic was telling me i cant feel anything
My inner critic (a hunched over hawk) told me, as always, that I wouldn’t get hard and wouldn’t stay that way. My inner critic (a huge great horned owl) told it that that was nonsense, that I was “hard as a brick” (a phrase that made me laugh in its outlandishness) and that, of course, if my erection faded for a little while it would come back. That’s the nature of arousal. It also called my inner critic an “old crow” and told it to go away. I cried a lot (and involuntarily found myself reaching up to gently stroke the feathers of the owl, which I felt perched on my shoulder).
My inner critic says as soon as you put that condom on your go soft.
But my coach says, you can stay hard easy, you’ve done it before, you’ll do it again. During that threesome one of the girls had to stop as she was too sore and put of stamina! And you’re worrying about that.
Just need to keep your head on the game, and not panic when the rubber comes out. Be prepared, open it the right way, think about se y shit when you roll it down and don’t rush to get it in, it won’t go soft before you do. You’ve taken it out and put it back 100s of time!
The inner critic was saying I’ll never be able to get hard again. And then the inner coach said that’s nonsense, I’ve been hard during sex plenty of times. I immediately now feel a tension release and way more relaxed. I love my inner coach!
My inner critic said I’d never get hard. My inner coach said that’s nonsense don’t listen to him. You’ve got this. You will succeed.
My critic said I would fail and that I wasn’t good enough.
My coach said the exact opposite but made be believe it
and empowered me.
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My critic said you can never please her. My coach said you’ve pleased dozens of women that look better or worse, you got this in the bag
My inner critic said I wasn’t deserving of love; both physical and emotional. My inner coach championed my right to deserve both forms of love because I put in the effort and that not only because I’m human, but because I am a man.
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My inner critic made me feel anxious at the thought of letting someone else down in the bedroom.
My inner coach said to the critic “let him show himself how good he can be”. I feel like I needed that, something inside of me that believes in my potential because when it’s good it’s great, and why should I be denying the world of that?
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My inner critic says my dick is too small and won’t get hard enough to penetrate. My coach said that my dick is a grower and bigger than average. We’ve had lots of great sex, don’t listen
Inner critic said I wouldn’t last long enough
Inner coach pointed out the great work exercise and mental I’ve done, and that even if that happened, can switch up
Coach is confident and positive that we’ve been putting in the work and the last 3 sexual encounters have been positive and successful. Be proud of the work you’re doing.
My inner critic said I’m gonna lose my erection again
My inner coach said that’s possible but I’m going to make her feel great with my tongue first, she understands more what I’m dealing with and it’ll be fine
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Behind the inner critics was a small character dressed in fear. My inner coach saw through this disguise, he knows I’m not one who will fall for this fear forever. All I needed to do was to stand up to it.
My inner critic was telling me that she doesn’t enjoy having sex with me because I can’t keep an erection
My inner coach told me that she does want to have sex with me because she keeps talking about her fantasy’s that she has with me and what she want me to do with her once I can become confident enough to do so.
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My inner critic blames me and wants to punish me for things I did and regret in my past.
My inner coach is strong and believes that I have done enough work on myself to have learned from those mistakes and atone for them. My present and future are at stake, no longer my past, and I deserve great sex for once in my life
My inner critic couldn’t say much cuz my last few experiences have been great honestly
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My inner critic said you’ll have trouble getting hard and it’ll be awful. My inner coach said that I get hard all the time from her in multiple other sexual scenarios. It said that I’ve got to stop overthinking it, clean my mind and that I’ve got this. It’s natural and it’s time to turn this around.
My inner critic told me that because you couldn’t maintain an erection last time during sex that you were the reason that your relationship with your partner took a big hit and that it’ll only keep getting worse if you can’t get it up.
My inner coach said that they are working on a healthier mental to better prepare themselves for sex and beyond within the relationship and that this issue doesn’t happen all the time.
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My inner critic told me that I wasn’t going to be able to spontaneously have sex with my partner because I can’t get hard without her help, and even then I wouldn’t get hard. My inner coach backed me up and said he’s wrong, and that there’s been many times where my partner and I have had spontaneous sex (oral or penetrative) and it’s felt amazing.