What affirmations work for you?

You are ok and you are my body sometimes erections take time so its ok to be soft now but you will hard again in a moment just relax and think about sex and arousal think about your partner think about how cute and hot she is

Hearing others is great

you are me and i am you, we both are ONE!

you are me, i am you. We both are ONE, intertwined!

You’ve allowed me to have amazing sex in the past, and I know you will allow that for me in the future as well. You just need to me learn to manage my anxiety around sex and to learn to be present during sexual activities and I know you will do the rest because that’s why my penis is made to do.

We’re getting better each day

Like everyone, you’ve got your good days and bad days. Don’t let the bad ones overshadow the good ones

your partner already seen it hard before, and knows what it can do and loves it

I deserved a fulfilling sex life

We’re working on this together. You’re beautiful and fine.

We’re just a bit scared, nothing we can’t overcome big guy

She’s already told you she likes you.

You’ve worked for years. Don’t be so hard on yourself.

We’ll get back to ourselves soon - we can do it
together.

It’s doing the best it can with the information given to it.

there’s no pressure or graded performance, just here for a good time

That we’re going to work together to be better!

Its a part of my body and im on the right track to success. Im taking the steps necessary gain more confidence and control. I can succeed.

We’ve got this. It’s OK. I know we can do this! and we need to pay more attention to our pleasure…not theirs

We will Get through this

I was at fault and not my boy. It was my thoughts that caused this issue. My body knows how to operate. I just need to trust it.

I know I put you through a lot but we are working on this together