Guys with early climax, what's your inner critic like?

my inner critic makes me worried that i won’t perform well

Mine tells me that I’m inadequate in bed

Gives me anxiety and tells me I won’t last long enough in bed

Will finish too quickly

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You don’t even like it

I fee inadequate cos I want my girlfriend and I to enjoy sex for longer and we don’t as I won’t last long enough which makes me feel shit about myself as I’m responsible for the cessation of our joint pleasure

Mine tells me I won’t last long enough in bed

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It’s just a feeling. And it presents me memories of “failure” when having sex.

Mine tries to remind me of the times of finish too quick and tries to take over when we’re close to having sex. It makes me want to not even try.

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yes I agree mine tells me I won’t last last and it will never be possible for me to

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My inner critic tells me i won’t last long during Sex, says i could fail and my sex Partner could deny me. It tells me I should even avoid sex to be Safe so i won’t get denied.

It tells me I won’t last long enough (even though I know I can keep going and my partner doesn’t care), so I can never relax and simply feel good, there’s always a voice telling me to be careful or I will ruin everything.

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My inner critic tells me that I won’t last long enough to truly have passionate sex, and that this is disappointing to my girlfriend. It also suggests that perhaps she’s had better partners in the past, and that makes me feel inadequate.

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That I won’t last long enough to please my partner

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My inner critic tells me about the reasons I might fail, at sex work and in life.

That I’m too old to be having is problem. That I’m not as good as my partners previous relationships. That I’m going to finish to early so what’s the point in disappointing her

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It asks me what’s the point in trying or initiating sex if you’re only gonna last a couple of seconds.

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Harshly realistic and overly critical, but also anxious for me to succeed.

Playing in my head it going badly

Sometimes when I try to be positive my inner critic comes right behind me and says the opposite of my positivity. Especially if it’s important to me.