I feel like I don’t have an inner critic, it almost feels like I have the opposite where I’m being pushed to last longer, sometimes even insulting myself to boost me to last longer but in all honesty it never works
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My inner critic is beyond a voice that says you can’t. It’s a feeling that it is impossible.
It tells me that I won’t be good enough and that at the end of it all, I won’t be able to please my partner. So much is built off how good a man is in bed and my critic constantly reminds me of that.
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My inner critic is more of a visualisation of my ideal experience and then an anxiety I won’t be able to achieve it
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Inner critic specifically based on previous experience with PE
Overcautious, pessimistic, worried, analytical, strategic,
שאני לא מספיק מענג אותה אם אני לא מצליח להחזיק זקפה. שיש לה ציפייה שאוכל לזיין אותה חזק ולהביא אותה לאורגזמות ואני לא עומד בציפייה הזו
Stressed and fearful
Unsatisfying for both of us
No good, heavy on past experiences with PE being its main focus. Also other embarrassing experiences during sex
I enjoy the experience and connection that happens during sex and because of my PE I feel like neither me and my partner can’t get that luckily she takes a lot of the pressure off but I’m still in my head
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Just ejaculate to fats
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Fear of cumming too fast and then sadness afterwards
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Concerned about cumming too fast, or my dick not being enough to satisfy her.
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To finish too fast and to disappoint her. Even though I know I can do other things for her so that she’s satisfied, I want to be satisfied as well and basically know that I can’t get to that place.
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Worried that I will cum too fast. What’s even the point of having sex if she is just going to leave disappointed? It makes me question trying to have sex any more.
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The disappointment and frustration of an unsatisfied partner and the short lived climax for myself
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Overcompensating with foreplay to ensure my partner is satisfied before I ejaculate quick
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For me I can’t really discuss with my inner critic actually it’s like I have to get better and be the best and last for a long time but for me I feel like I disappointed my partner because I came too quick and made her feel like she was the guilty one I just want to be happy and make her happy and make her feel not disappointed in me.
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The fear of cumming too fast preventing me from pleasuring my partner
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