Continuing the discussion from https://community.mojo.so/t/what-does-your-inner-critic-sound-like-part-3/5534/10003.
Previous discussions:
It tells me you are going to finish too quickly or not be able to get hard.
it tells me I’m not going to get hard and if I do my erection won’t last
It tells me I don’t enjoy sex with my girlfriend anymore because I sometimes can’t maintain an erection and it makes me believe that to be true sometimes.
I have decades of feeling like a failure and confirmation of that from women who didn’t want to see me agian or broke up with me because of sexual issues. I can hear an inner critic, but the feeling of that rejection resurfacing is the most acute.
a nagging negative voice that stresses me out and gets my heart racings. makes my heart race, my forehead sweat. I try and picture it as a chubbier version of my self that I then try and get on-side. He then turns into the real me.
My inner voice tells me that I can’t get hard, and despite the attention from my partner I won’t stay hard and won’t cum.
It tells m that I’m going to finish too quickly and then go soft which means my girlfriend won’t enjoy it as much.
Cum to early
It tells me im wasting the oportunity to have great sex and give my partner loads of pleasure and cum.(Hehe)
It says im less man because cant fuck her properly and give her rock solid penis instead of soft. Tells me im not going to mantain It hard
it tells me that i’m going to ruin the opportunity of sex again because i can’t get hard and will disappoint my partner
It tells me that you are trying hard to get it hard. But you have always given and get, and have not gotten much from the partner.
Doesn’t matter how many women you are trying to imagine with, it won’t work.
He’s telling me that you may not get hard and it makes me worried about. This has happened before but it does work at times so why are we so worried.
He tells me that I am useless as a man and that my girlfriend will get frustrated and leave me if I don’t work. This is despite the contrary being true and that sometimes I do work very well. But every time there is that small seed of doubt which just grows.
My inner critic tells me that I will not get hard enough to have sex with my girlfriend, and if I do get hard, it will not stay hard for long.
He tells me that if I don’t fix this soon, my girlfriend is going to break up with me, because we all know it can’t go on like this forever.
Just a quiet nervous inner voice that says just don’t go soft don’t go soft.
I will not be able to get it up. I will not be able the satisfy the women. I am not good enough
My inner critic looks at my history of going soft during sex, and predicts it will happen the next time too.
My inner critic recalls the last time I went soft during sex and had to stop
my inner critic keeps thinking “is it time to penetrate? Is it time to penetrate? Quick, before I lose the erection!”