Cumming too soon
I’m exactly the same. The doubts of if I’m doing enough for my girlfriend. Even when she reaffirms it was good the thoughts of disappointment are still there.
Asking if she is happy then finishing early
Feeling the urge as soon as she’s close is extremely frustrating. My inner critic will even have me doubting if she’ll even want to have sex, or questioning if it’ll be awkward.
The thought of not satisfying my partner and being unable to control my climax
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The thought that I will cum early and will not be able to enjoy the full pleasure.
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Come early, not get hard
The thought that no matter how pleasurable the session is for my partner or I, the foreplay, touching, stroking, intercourse…my partner will cum but I won’t
The fear of coming to fast and not bring enough pleasure to my girlfriend or not being able to get hard at all
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My inner critic is not being masculine and dominating and taking control in the bedroom enough
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My inner critic is hyper aware of what I forget to think about: slowing down, deepening my voice, moving too quickly to be sexy
My inner critic thinks that every one is upset with me. He thinks my partner doesn’t love me and isn’t satisfied by me emotionaly or physically.
My inner critic highlights constant thoughts about my penis not being aesthetically pleasing, or big enough, and about cumming too fast. During sex I’ve avoided doing penetration as long as possible and resorted to making my partner cum first by doing fellatio on them before any penetration. It’s the only thing that’s made me feel good about my sexual ability (which doesn’t really involve my penis), but I want to get my penis to give me gratification too.
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It wants to see me fail.
Not going to lie. I couldnt think of an inner critic because i’m always just confidently flying into sex, trying my hardest for this time to be different but then i see the comments from others afterwards and relate to so many.
Feeling like im not going to please my missus, feeling like im going to finish too soon, the way i feel after sex because i havent lasted very long (terrible, a failure).
Will definately be more open the next time i try this exercise
My inner critic is telling me the whole time that “you better not finish yet—you’ll disappoint her and you’ll be left feeling like you didn’t ‘capitalize’ enough on this opportunity”
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“Don’t finish too soon. Do anything but finish.” My inner critic is so obsessed with how long I lasts and is overly observing what will make me climax too soon. Rather then enjoying the moment and sensations that feel good.
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You’re gonna fuck it up. She’s not gonna come back. Why even bother trying to get laid. It’s gonna be miserable
Just don’t finish too fast. Don’t embarrass yourself by finishing so quickly. She’s gonna tell all her friends about it. About how quickly you came and barely pleasured her.
Don’t finish top quickly, you don’t last long enough to satisfy her. She gonna tell her friends about this.
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