My voice tells me that there’s no way that I can satisfy her through sex and that I will end up finishing before she is satisfied no matter how hard I try
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It’s my own voice, and I’m always battling the high expectations I set for myself. I just want to give her the best experience and I want it to be from me. So I’m battling my voice telling me I’m not going to last long enough to do that.
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It’s the self-deprecating voice my ex-wife trained me to have to make her feel better about herself. That everything came down to a problem with me.
My voice begins before even going out to dinner. It lets me know it’s over before the night even begins. It slowly gnaws at me during the day only to say “I told you so” after my performance.
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It’s the anxiety inducing voice that keeps reminding me that it’s going to happen again and she wont be satisfied the way we both want her to be.
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My critic wears a top hat and is in my mouth. He looks like a dumbass and says I’m going to cum instantly.
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Mine just says your only good with your mouth, you can’t last long enough to enjoy sex together her
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I tried, but couldn’t seem to imagine this voice or whatever. I know what she’s talking about but I can’t just summon it, in my mind. I think I’ll have to try again some time.
Mine says you do good with foreplay but when you penetrate you only last a few pumps unless you go really really really slow.
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my inner critic is just me getting into my own head and telling myself to last longer but it doesnt help
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Exactly the same here
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I think my inner voice changes. Sometimes the it’s me in my head longing for her to be satisfied and open up for more intimacy but in my head I hear I can’t do it. The times that I have tried to talk to her about the relationship I want, it ends with her saying “I’ve never thought of you as pleasure and I never will”.
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My inner voice mainly asserts that no matter what I’m doing that I’ll fuck it up one way or another, makes me feel like I’m constantly walking on egg shells trying to navigate the correct way to do anything.
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My inner critic is an arsehole that knows just the wrong things to say. I’m imagining it a a jersey shore type character. Arse
Same for me
I like that exercise. I’m really trying to balance my inner critic and tell myself to calm down. I just jacked off for my partner and I am putting on shame because I feel like I came too quickly. I was excited. They came a few mins after me. They didn’t treat me any differently because of it but I took on the same. I am trying to let it go.
We did have sex the other night with a condom and it build my confidence to be inside them.
It was a little hard to imagine off the start but I could picture it, how it sounds, how it makes me act, and how it makes me feel about myself. I think it’s the first step in realizing.
My inner critic can’t get his words out before I cum
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“you aren’t enough” that’s it, and it spirals down every path from there. It’s like a brain tumour.
My inner critics is myself… Started by my parents who put the fear of God in me that I should never have sex before marriage or I’d go to hell. I remember the first time I had sex I could hear religious music playing and I was so scared and came so quick thinking I was going to hell. I was never right from the beginning and that voice is still there.