“If she touches me too soon I’ll cum too quick. If you get too close I’ll cum too quick. If I’m aroused too soon I’ll cum too quick” making up lame excuses as to why I cum so fast - always having to apologise. It’s so embarrassing and devaluating. I know that if I don’t last long enough there won’t be a next time. It’s hard.
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I’m scared to have intercourse I can kisss all day but as soon as things start heating up I want out or I want her to make me cum give me quick head that’s it
I can’t enjoy sex because I’m so focused on not finishing too quickly. I know that worrying about how long I last will only make me finisher quicker. If I could just relax and turn my mind off, I think I would be better able to enjoy sex and not worry too much about when I finish
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I think I want to have sex, but when the time comes, I get nervous about it because I’m scared I’ll finish too fast. During foreplay, trying to last long is the only thing I’ll think about. And then I feel bad if I finish fast so I will keep apologizing.
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It’s telling me if I finish too quickly that she’ll leave me.
My inner critic just tells me I’m gonna cum right away. It knows how much I wanna have sex all the time but can’t because I cum too fast
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It’s all good and fun in the foreplay but as soon that its time to put it in there’s the critic crashing in.
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Nada
I feel fine until I get to the point of no return or I baby and avoid that point because I want to last longer. Then I feel ashamed and the need to apologize.
The voice comes out as soon as sex starts, and it tells me to slow down, stop, or pull out so that I don’t embarrass myself. It keeps me from fully being present in the moment.
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It’s a voice in my head but I also feel it in my chest. Always telling me this is going to last long, slow down and I’m not good at this.
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It’s a verbal cue talking to myself in my head whenever I feel like it’s time to perform. And probably doesn’t help with my enjoyment of sex or performance because I’m a bit in my head as well as being focused on my partner.
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Mine is a bigger, stronger than me. Almost the man I wish I was. He tells me I’m going to cum too soon and ruin the moment. He tells me to do anything but use my cock because when I do then the sex will be over and I’ll have let the woman down. I feel it in my chest and it’s like he’s racing around in my brain. It’s all I hear.
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Mine is screaming every second, “you’re going to cum, you’re going to cum, you’re going to cum” … those words echo through my brain constantly day in day out. The thought of mildly becoming affection with a women, and those words scream through my mind. It had literally ruined my relationship and the thought of ever getting close with another women again.
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Mine is smaller, a younger version of myself whispering doubts into my ear.
Mine gives me anxiety in the build up to sex, I know I’m not going to last long so it tells me every time I have sex I’m letting my partner down
Mine is whispering into my ear reminding me that I’m not ever going to be the dominant one to be in control as I can’t even control my own ejaculation and I am disappointing my partner because of this
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Mines a cruder version of myself, there to remind me that if I’m not big enough or last long, my partner won’t be satisfied or even enjoy sex with me. Eventually she just won’t want me at all anymore.
Mine is behind my shoulder and interjects devaluing thoughts, plants ideas that things will go wrong or i won’t do something right in bed, and am incapable of finding a partner i love
Mine whispers believable negative thoughts, doubts and predictions about what is most likely going to happen and go wrong a d makes me believe them