My inner critic is myself! Always telling me I’m not big enough and I won’t last too satisfy her needs. He tells me why even try to fight it, nothing you have done to date has worked. She’s going to leave you because of it!
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My inner critic tells me that I won’t last long enough and that my partner will resent me for it and will eventually result in them leaving me
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Here we go, I’m going soft again, happens all the time
It’s my voice, telling myself I’m not going to last long enough. Don’t go soft! Don’t cum to quick! Hoping she cums before me! Definitely in my head and not allowing me to be in the moment.
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Voice telling me I’m going to not last long enough let my partner down and feel shame and embarrassment for it and tells me to just not peruse the sexual act
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basically… my inner critic’s telling me to don’t cum early, that i’ll not be able to let her cum… but what makes me feel anxious the most is that i feel the pressure to be judged not just from her, but from her friends and the people in general… every time that i have sex i feel people watching me and judging me, and i cannot think to anything else.
it’s so stressful… i feel that i’m living the 20% of my life.
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Telling me I won’t last long at all and that I’ll always be like this. She will stop loving me and never be satisfied with what I can bring.
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It’s telling me don’t cum quick. You haven’t made her climax in a a long time. She’s gonna get tired of this and she’ll go somewhere else
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Don’t cum
Telling me I’m gunna cum quick
“Make sure she cums first, if she doesn’t, you’ve disappointed her…, you don’t want her to go somewhere else”.
It’s telling me that I am inadequate. That I am not capable of having a healthy relationship with sex the way other guys do.
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It tells me I cum fast. I do not go long as what expectations are for 15-20 min. I do not do round 2 quickly like in 10 min. I may need 1 hour to do round 2. It questions me all the time
Pressure of lasting long enough at a pace to make her orgasm. Only when I speed it up she enjoys it, when I slow it down she wants me to speed up which makes me cum faster.
“Make sure she cums before you do. Don’t leave the field lopsided. If you get off and she doesn’t you’ve failed” -My inner voice
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« you will cum too fast, she will not enjoy the sex, youll look like an idiot and she will leave »
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“If you do it fast, you will cum too quicky and both yourself and her will be dissapointed.”
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If you can’t make him cum he will find someone who can, you are a lousy top
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“I don’t want to do this. Please don’t come fast. Please don’t come fast. I’m not gonna last long. I don’t want to disappoint her. I’m going to disappoint her. Get out of your head.”
Sure, she’ll cum when she’s on top but that doesn’t count because as a man you need to pound an orgasm out of her. But you can’t do that because you cum too fast. You’re really not much of a man.
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