I want to be mindful of everything I’m feeling during sex and also even before sex during foreplay so that I am experiencing the pleasures of the moment and connecting more deeply with my partner, rather than listening to some voice in my head. Too often I try to force myself into “feeling” the pleasure rather than just let the pleasure come to me naturally.
Whenever I am having sex my mind overthinks everything about my relationship with the person I am with, whether it’s a long term thing or a short term fling. I wish when I was having sex it i could stay in the moment and focus on the pleasure.
To focus only on the pleasure and stay present
I want to enjoy the experience and feelings as opposed to dreading it
I think it would do wonders for my self esteem if I could react less to self criticism and not take it so seriously. I think it would also help my sex life to be more in the moment and present
I want to be more mindful so I can focus my attention solely on my pleasure and connecting with my partner rather than be worried about anything else.
To savour the moment. Not to be there, distracted by negative thoughts.
To enjoy the sensations felt and the company of my partner. To feel no pressure at all other than living in that exact moment.
I want to be more mindful and enjoy the pleasures of sex. I want to enjoy his touch, his body, and the intimacy. I want to be in the moment. All of the racket in the world, whether it’s work, errands, or my own sexual performance, should melt away.
Focus on my pleasure
I want to be in the moment rather than thinking about how it’s going and actually feel the heights of sexual sensations rather than just a kind of distant friction
I want to get back to where I am enjoying and giving to my partner
I am tired of feeling like a failure. I want yo go back to being a sexual person in a sexual relationship.
So I can focus on both of our pleasure and connecting as human beings rather than just reaching a physical climax
So I can be fully in the moment and enjoy every minute of it, as well as be keen to all the wonderful sensations that come along with being intimate. Also to just completely forge the fact that’s there’s nothing that needs to be accomplished during sex except for the pure intimacy and enjoying the pleasure for what it is as well as the connection with your partner.
To allow myself to enjoy what is happening rather than worrying about what might happen.
so that I can just relax and enjoy it and not worry or stress in the lead up and while I am actually having sex. I don’t want to get distracted by my thoughts
ive found i dontt have issues the less im thinking about it and the more im focusing on the moment
I want to focus on enjoying the experience and not stressed out about how it’s going to turn out. Giving my full attention to what’s going on and my partner to fully get out of my head.
I want to enjoy ever moment every feeling with my partner.