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She wasn’t having a good time since I couldn’t get hard enough for penetration
There’s no fixing this
I WILL not last long enough during sex and my partner won’t be satisfied.
New girlfriend. She loves my fingers and my tongue. She knows I hav had issues. She goes down, I get firm
But lose it regularly.
She genuinely cums 4-5 times each time we’re together and says she’s satisfied.
I can usually get myself off alone - better with pills. So I know it’sin my head….
My mind is trying to tell me I’ll never recover. But it just doesn’t know the future.
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That my partner will leave me- It’s catastrophizing and it’s early days as a relationship, things have already gotten significantly better since the beginning of the relationship, and they have the capacity to continue to do so. Progress isn’t linear and set backs happen, but let them go and relax and it will be ok.
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My partner is lying when they say they enjoy sex which only lasts a short time
I will come quickly and I won’t satisfy the girl I’m with and that makes me a disappointment
That my marriage is going to fail if i missperform one night
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She’s only being nice about it to avoid making me feel bad, but she’s already looking for another option
I’m soft and won’t get hard but I’ve been hard thousands of times before so I can do it again
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I’m here to tell you that these training sessions have helped with secual issues but as we in wnc are in a disaster zone, they have helped alot with my daily stress!
I felt like a failure not getting it up, even though I was hard during foreplay
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I hate that I can’t stay hard long enough to finish.
In the oas I’ve had amazing sessions where it was never a problem before
I will never know so it up for long enough
It’s very much hit or miss and it’s frustrating when I start thinking “why wont I get hard this time” so on and so on. It’s a negative bubble that I need to shift
‘I’m going to finish too quickly and disappoint her’ from our first time.
All or nothing, and mind reading
What I actually found out later was she really enjoyed it and I said it as so great fora first time together
Rather than saying I should be able to stay hard, I’ll tell myself I am capable of staying hard
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