I don’t feel great / confident about bringing it up. I’ve had intermittent erection issues for 30 years. Last time it happened my wife was obviously frustrated with me.
It felt great being able to say it to him. It’s been making me feel safe and not judged about it.
I didn’t realize i had an issue until we were intimate. When i explored it more i realized i had some past trauma from my ex husband and since i hadn’t been in an intimate situation since, didn’t realize it wasa problem. We sat and had a long convo about it and it made us even closer.
I’ve discussed with my partner but will use more I statements and work to lower the pressure of the situation
The morning after we were getting going again, and I was focused on her and she noticed. I will aim to be more open about my issues
I’m not currently in a relationship. I would like to take ownership, I think this is good advice that I would use.
I’ve done half and half of telling them once it happens vs telling them in advance, it’s harder to tell them up front but I think it’s better for both of us in the long term
I’d discuss it if I didn’t feel confident. I’d also discuss not rushing into sex.
It can be really scary but I’ve found that it’s always worth it
I haven’t shared that issue with a partner, I believe it mights be very hard in the beginning but it’s something you’ll surely have to face at least once in a lifetime
Talkin with my girlfriend about the sexual problems I have or how I have felt when it happens makes me feel so much better. I get hung up in feeling like I burden her or let her down that I don’t talk to her and I lose the one outlet or saving grace in the whole situation.
I’ve told my girlfriend about my issues staying hard or getting hard, she has been very understanding and I’ve had fewer occurrences of it happening.
She even encourages me to use “the app” (mojo). Yet I still find myself feeling like I’m somehow failing her, that I’m less of a man in her eyes and I get worried that she will be disappointed if I can’t perform.
It has been a bit of a double-edged sword for me. She understood that I’ve had this for a long time and is frustrated that I haven’t done anything to fix it.
After 2 years of hiding my problem I’ve finally started to have these conversations with my partner and honestly I am so thankful they’ve happened.
have had a conversation with my partner about it & have showed her how Mojo works. Already it has lifted a massive burden off my shoulders & I feel much less stressed and overwhelmed by PE. We’ve started sensate focus level 1 & it went well
It is very hard to talk about it, because it is such a big issue in my head. Whenever I do tell a partner as a single guy, it still occurs and normally doesnt completely take the stress off. It does feel relieving though.
super uncomfortly
I already do and it is helpful
It’s into a small degree, but talking about and being open about how we feel is making things easier.
I already do it and I think it’s helping a lot. I feel very supported