Sex is me cooking you a healthy delicious meal.
Sex is an unique and emotional bond between two people
I just want sex to be fun again . . . I think it was in phase 6 where making sex fun again was said and that hit me hard. Sex hasn’t been fun or playful in a long time. Pretty much every bullet point on the previous page resonated with me. I remember my ex-wife telling me to “grow-up” and “stop being so childish” when it came to sex. I couldn’t be me anymore. That’s when my ED started.
My first relationship after the divorce, I was concerned about my ability to perform, but for her, sex was play. She made me feel desired and wanted and accepted. She loved and enjoyed sex and I know I fed off that enthusiasm. I never had an issue with her in terms of getting it up or lasting. She also liked my “dark side” and introduced me to BDSM, to kink, to play.
In the years since I’ve wondered if it was the kink that made the sex so good or the acceptance. Being able to be me. Because with everyone since, I’ve felt like I needed to bury who I am.
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Sex is pleasure and connection. Sex is also an exploration.
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Sex is shared intimacy and closeness with a partner, connecting two people by their act of trusting each other with their bodies.
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Keeping things relaxed and easy. Playful, sometimes kinky.
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Bodies joining together in shared Intimacy.
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Make love to each other und feel as close as possible
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We
Sex is experiencing and sharing our true selves — shedding clothes and personas and just BEING. Being both primal and sublime, intense and delicate, active and relaxed, at the same time.
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Sex can be enjoyable even if it’s not always focused on penetration.
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Allowing yourself to feel good by letting go and giving yourself over 100% to your partner
Allowing yourself to feel good by letting go and giving yourself over 100 percent to your partner
Sex is communication beyond words awakening feelings between two people that build connection
A time one or more people enjoy in a sensual way
A piece of beauty and art that I can share, enjoy and remember
Physical expression of intimacy
A space to connect with my partner but also to myself and go to higher realms of existence
Total domination of my partner but not necessarily physical but emotional
Having fun where both of us feel wanted and experience enjoyment.