Being accepted fully by someone who explores the desires I’ve buried
I would like a deeper connection. I would like to feel that I am wanted and that I am desirable. I would like to feel comfortable in our relationship and that we can communicate on many different levels so that we are both heard seen felt and feel valued and respected
I want sex to be something that we can do at our fullest passion, fully ourselves. I want it to be something taken seriously and prepped for, since it’s not always fireworks naturally (real life).
A deep connection between me and my partner, where we can be ourselves, enjoy each other and cum lots
Physical intimacy because it feels good - probably touch
A joint venture towards shared orgasm, where both parties feel free and comfortable to confidently express their genuine sexual selves in a passionate, mutually ecstatic experience
Sex is a collaborative effort where intimate connection and bonding takes place.
High degree of comfortability and trust. Communication and consent. A safe space for physical intensity, roughness, and the part of me that wants to dominate and direct. I also want to give pleasure to my partner, and would enjoy them taking control at times. Exploring all other areas of sex, not just penetration. Variation, so also moments of care and softness.
I see sex as a vessel for emotional connection. Eroticism in a relationship is the spice and the motivation for both my partner and me getting our needs met. Knowing each other’s preferences helps, but the communication doesn’t always have to be verbal.
Acceptance of the soul, indulging in each other’s bodies and minds, and letting go of inhibition
A man servicing me and my manhood
Closeness and exploration of the various ways to be close
Appreciation and having fun with each other
Giving mutual pleasure for a long time and being present to show each other that they are desired and lived
Cracking jokes and counting numbers is the best way to encounter penetration .
Like playing together, laughing and joking around, then getting closer and closer and eventually things happen…
Being able to have both parties finish and connect emotionally
An emotional and pleasurable connection
Mutual lust for one another. A sense of unbridled appreciation
An opportunity to show physically that that person is not essential part of you through body worship.