What’s an expanded definition of sex you wish you could live by?

I wish it could be something we both were passionate about, and that we bonded over our enthusiasm for it. I suppose I just want to feel wanted and desired

I want to satisfy my woman, and be satisfied myself. I want is to feel closer and more intimate, and have fun together.

I want it to feel sensual and passionate. I want to be touched all over my body, and to touch her everywhere. I love oral sex and the pleasure it brings us both. I love being wanted and want her to feel the same.

I define sex as a mode of expression of how passionately you want the person on a mental and spiritual level. It’s both slow and hard and at the same it’s always deep (spiritually). And it’s about vulnerability mixed with care for the other as a place to just be raw and real

I want to be passionate

Showing the other person how much I care for them physically and enjoying them too

I want sex to be passionate with plenty on interest from both sides about the other person’s body. Focused on feeling good instead of thinking. With lots of touching not centered on my dick

Sex to me comes from the heart with emotion. Being in my 20’s, sex came so natural and so did my erections. Not so much anymore. I need to connect emotionally with a woman now. It goes beyond the physical aspect now.

It includes includes emotions , passion and me being authentically me. I am a badass and the object of their desire

It should be enjoying each other’s company both physically and mentally. And able to explore each other’s bodies without judgement

I wish I could just enjoy sex. I like women, I love everything about them and I wish I could just feel free and enjoy myself when I have sex

The whole process that goes from laughing ,making eye contact, cracking jokes, through to being physically close, then before you know it you are kissing, touching, and eventually having sex through that incredibly intimate connection process. Then when finished you can look each other in the eyes and almost go back to the start again. It should feel seamless.

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The entire event

Sex is transcending yourself into the realm of pleasure

The ultimate act of physical and emotional closeness, vulnerability and connectedness

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An act of exploration of each other’s bodies. Letting out both the vulnerable part of us and the secret pulsions which we bury inside us

A moment of complete relaxation and connection

Both always satisfied and happy.

Tapping into an animalistic part of yourself and intimately connecting with you and your partner’s bodies. Being present with one another

It would be nice if I could associate sex as a super fun thing and not just erection performance based activities. Would love to be able to be more spontaneous, more in the moment and less in my head hanging out with my worst critic. I would love it to be a freeing activity of connecting with a person rather than withdrawing and watching myself perform

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