That I should be hard the whole time during sex
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If I watch porn my girlfriend won’t turn me on because I can only get aroused from porn
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That I should be hard and stay hard as soon as my pants come off
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If I watch porn now, I won’t be aroused enough later to initiate sex
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That my errection should come at will and last for at least 30min
Should get instant erections
That I can stay hard for a full hour
When I masturbate, I don’t (usually) allow myself to orgasm, as I want to share that w my partner. When I am having sex w my partner though, I find it challenging to achieve orgasm, this making me think that I’m “training” myself not to orgasm when I want
That I made myself develop a premature-ejaculation problem by holding back every time I had sex. Others could be listening so had to be quieter etc, I think it changed sex for me and I lost that control on my orgasms
I’m afraid that the kinky genres I watch make it harder for me to be aroused during vanilla sex. I guess it’s that nagging fear that is killing the arousal, not the interest in kink making my “standards” higher
That I should get hard straight away and it should stay fully hard the whole time
That I should be fully hard always
That I should be really horny all the time
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Hard always
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that I should always want sex as a male
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The idea that I need to be hard and also control my orgasm time. I have stress about cumming too early.
That all women want a penis that is 8" or longer. Regardless of lots of evidence, it always sits in the back of my head that 6.5" is too small.
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My partner thinks I’m cheating on her by watching porn which has created guilt and shame. I don’t watch it anymore.
That’s I should be turned on all the time.
Thinking that as a male I should always be able to get hard.
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