That sex should always end with ejaculation by penetration, all the rest is foreplay.
Thinking a male should be turned on easily and quickly and always be on go
That men can last long and have sex in multiple positions.
That I have run out of juice when the time comes to be with my gf
That women are timing sex down to the nanosecond and that foreplay doesn’t count (even though I enjoy it!)
My head really struggles to let go of the idea that penetrative sex and lasting during that is the be-all and end-all.
That you should always be aroused and ready to go as a male.
That you should keep a rock hard erection from beginning of foreplay to end of sex, and even after finishing
That I need to get hard immediately and stay hard cause that’s what’s normal for sexually successful males
Watching porn means I can’t get hard with a partner
My brain links porn to erection, therefore real sex does not give me erection
That I have to get rock hard erections and stay hard for a very long time.
That I need to be rock hard before fore play even happens and that I need to be hard for the duration of sex
I struggle with feeling that I have to be very hard during sex, and if I don’t finish sex is a failure
That I have to stay hard throughout foreplay and sex, and that I have to last a long time
I have to lead and be perfect
Just that watching it is bad, it is a red flag to my personality that I enjoy it.
I think not so long ago I still had the feeling that watching porn was something bad. Also I figured out that potn was just a buffer for confronting my feelings.
That I have to be hard on demand and if it doesn’t happen immediately, then it’s not worth trying again
Porn will desensitize you in real life
It’s difficult to get hard without the sensitivity of or