Bingo for me as well
My inner critic is an avatar of the confident version of myself and is well-dressed and calm. He stands behind me judging the situation , makes deprecating comments and always justifies with some type of logic (like it didn’t work last time, why would you expect it to work this time?).
Always my own voice talking to me, never yelling or whispering just a normal voice. Almost like they are just questioning my worthiness.
My inner critic is like my own voice, telling me not to loose the erection or if I have it, to try and keep it so I do good, also tells me to not fail so I won’t be on the situation that makes me feel so horrible.
It is not a separate voice, it is just my mind telling me that this is not going to work (while telling myself please freakin work!).
A buzz kill
My inner critic sounds like me but almost like a “devil” version of me…
My inner critic feels like me only. It looks at experiences of past and worries whether I will get it up. This worry takes me out of the moment and I am focussed on getting an erection rather than getting immersed in the moment.
It’s me in a suit
My inner critic is a small voice that sounds like me, who’s telling me, “you’re gonna go limp, you’re not even hard right now, this is embarrassing. What are you even doing here? You don’t hook up with people.”
It’s a confidence wrecker.
My inner critic has a medium volumed voice which i think is my voice. It is constantly asking me what if, what if you don’t ge an erection? And then the heat starts burning up my body and goes to my head. I feel very hot
My inner critic at this point takes the shape of my partner Infront of me. I hear those super critical words from her mouth. As if she is saying those things to me. And that’s even worse than my own voice or some other figure saying those things to me.
My inner critic is dry and thinks he is always right - like what he says is self evident and correct. He is very negative and never fails to point out the ‘bad’ things about me and the things that will go wrong.
My inner critic is saying things like you better get it up, or why arent you hard you really like this girl and she really wants to fuck you, Dont act weird when you cant finish the job,
My inner critic is a tiny feeling of hollowness throughout my body, that I feel particularly in my head, when I picture things going wrong sexually.
Its a combination of previous temporary sexual partners, reminding me of negative thoughts during sex. Like you’re going to lose it, shes not enjoying this etc
My inner critic tells me I will fail, that I am inadequate in every way, and that I can’t even please my partner. I’m pathetic.
i dont believe to have an inner critic because my own conscience has no confidence in its self theres no small voice its just my own i dont have any dialog in my head during sex its usually pretty quite
My inner critic is like a little worm inside my head. cheering me on but also shouting at me to not fuck up the situation. i think it gets too much that it’s all i can think about and that’s where it leads to me not getting up for the occasion
Nervous. Jumpy. Scattered. Like he’s trying to spit out a paragraph of information in a couple of sentences.