I use sexual fantasy all the time but i have just all the same ones and need to spice it up.
When I was in my teen years I had a girlfriend that we would casually masturbate over facetime. I would have trouble finishing so I would imagine something else to help, she stopped playing with herself and began to tear up saying " Are you imagning someone besides me?"
I haven’t used my imagination since. It felt wrong and I wouldn’t want to make my girl sad. But now I realize I’ve been stifling my sexual freedom by not getting my brain involved in the activity.
I’m single now, but I plan on sharing my fantasies when I’m in my next romantic relationship.
I realized I don’t have them almost ever. I heavily relied on porn because I had never been in a sexual situation until recently. I don’t imagine myself in the fantasies that I do have but I am changing that and recalling some old ones I used to have where I was in them.
Honestly, no part right now. I think I really need to train this.
I typically share some fantasies but very selective about what I share. I would hate to make my partner insecure in any way. I think I should maybe actually take time to explore my fantasies and the idea of an erotic bank is fascinating.
I used to say how attracted I was to other women but I saw it causes jealousy. I thought I was just being open and honest about being a sexual being. I can see how this causes problems and it would great to meet someone who didn’t feel threatened by this.
I would like to add more Phantasies to my bank. Also take some time to add details to the few I already have.
My ex-wife used to make me feel like sexual fantasies were wrong, even tbough I had devwloped them because of experience (and she had a lot of experience before she met me). I would want to be able to share freely and comfortably with my next partner, especially now that I don’t feel shame or fear around it.
I don’t fantasise at all, and Ive Never understood it. Until now
My partner and I have shared fantasies and have always talked dirty to each other during sex. It’s very liberating, but I have noticed my problem with erections fading mostly occur when I stop talking and end up ‘in my own head.’ They always return when I engage in the moment and we start to share the fantasy together again. Some have caused me issues though, for instance we used to fantasise about visiting a swingers club or inviting other couples we know to join, but ever since I started getting panicky about my erection fade, I find these almost instantly give me that fake paranoia that the male partners in our fantasy will obviously be rock hard and I start to feel inadequate. I think addressing this issue using this app has really helped me reframe in my mind that the porn-stereotype that everyone is hard all the time is incorrect. So I guess I’d like to be more honest with my partner, as whenever she compliments my body or penis that really gets me going again, so if I get that reassurance that I’m always first choice in the fantasy then that may help?
I want to engage more sexual fantasies in my life.
I use fantasies often solo. I would like to bring them into my relationship. Not necessarily the details, that might hurt my husband if he’s not involved. But to use them to improve our sex. And to be deliberate about it. Until now I’ve been using them alone and shutting them off when he’s around. And I think that’s hurting us.
I fantasise some, def used to do it way more. I think porn kind of got rid of the need of it a bit. Will try to do it more and build up some sexy pictures to pull out when I start to hate on my dick.
I would like to be able to share my fantasies a bit more with my wife. I think she’d be open to them, I’m kinda nervous about it though!
Haven’t really considered it to be honest. Want it to be more of a thing.
They are not part of my sexual life
I love fantasy
My wife isn’t really open to talking about fantasies…. She feels pressure about sex already
I want to bottom and get fucked by a man. I want to suck cock and swallow loads. I’d love to find another married man to play and submit to