Hey all, weāre doing some research into sexual fantasies and how to help men understand them. Do you have a sexual fantasy? What is it? And how do you feel about having these fantasies?
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I have fantasies about having sex with black woman. I sometimes have racist thoughts, which Iām working through, which makes this interesting. I imagine itās me wishing to be wild and adventurous - getting down and dirty. I know itās incorrect to believe this about a race - alas itās there. I feel ashamed to share this, I wouldnāt tell anyone this. I have acted on it before during university and got humiliated/ostracised by racist people around me. None of my friends now would respond that way, yet I still feel apprehensive to follow the fantasy.
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I have cuckold fantasies. I only get off when I think about my wife having sex with other men in front of me. Definitely taboo and makes me feel shameful for wanting that
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I like to fantasise about rough sex or sometimes even previous hot sexual encounters to help me finish. This I feel slightly guilty about when sheās wanking me off etc
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My fantasyās involve female slavery. If youāve heard of John Normanās Gor series, itās basically like that. I discovered that series young, and though I remember I already had fantasies similar to that, the series matched what I already had so well that it has come to basically define what my sexual fantasy life is like. The thing is, I donāt really have any desire to act on the fantasy, I just liked it as a private experience that I had complete control of. It got to the point where I realized that it had become a compulsion (maybe even am addiction) and it makes me uncomfortable how warped my mind gets in relation to this fantasy. Iām trying to break free from relying on this fantasy and put more emphasis on real intimacy with my partner
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My unfulfilled fantasy is to have sex in an elevator. I have a thing for sex in open/public spaces, but Iām not an exhibitionist. Iāve done it on the beach, in a river, and others like that, so the elevator is one of those that I still think about. I think having fantasies is perfectly normal, they do add spice to a relationship, and are fun to act on them, usually.
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Fantasies, incest is a big one love the idea of it, beastality, public, slaves, pee play, sleep play. Those are my biggest fantasies. Done some and wish I could do more of them
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I get really turned on by big lactating milky breasts and the thought of sucking lots of milk from nipples. I am in my 40ās and have 2 kids and enjoyed the time when my wife was breastfeeding but it was never any sort of sexual thing for her so she wasnt into having me ācompeteā for her boobs. My fantasy now would be to meet a sexy single mom who was wantng me to help to relieve the excess milk from her swollen boobs!
From a Freudian psych point of view I figure this is likely to be some sort of mother-son desire type thing but I just find it so exciting.
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Sometimes when I am bored or donāt know what to think about I think about the longes lasting sex ever with someone I would see in public or celebrity or my crush for instance and I would imagine the longest most romantic and hardcore sex just repeating over and over and have satisfying sex with the most hottest and most beautiful women you could think of and I go through different positions and try to create new ones in my mind and re create them in my fantasy oh and fall asleep inside of her after and wake up to it all again 
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My sexual fantasy:
I am lying on a beach with a boner in loose fitting boardshorts watching all the beautiful babes coming up out of the water in almost transparent but very revealing one piece swimsuits.
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I have a sexual fantasy about rimming and really getting my tongue deep in thereā¦ nothing logical about itā¦ it just turns me on!
Not sure how I feel about it!
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Thank you all for sharing! Weāre doing more research on this, and you might see the results of that work in the app in a couple of months 
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Sex in the back seat of my car with a Filipino lady who I havenāt met yet. Weāve talked on the phone and it went from telling about our lives to describing how I would eat her pussy and she would suck me off. Iām planning to meet her and live it out in the back of my car soon. With her full consentā¦ Iāll report back
Pretty much any fit good looking straight guy asking me out and then wanting to try sexual stuff while treating me like he treats nice girls he likes (and Iām just gay and not trans or anything).
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Another one is a continuation of guys I liked in high school (who were probably bi or straight) taking things to the next level in the shower after a travel swim meet at another school and the shower is nice and warm and steamy. A lot of these things were probably opportunities I missed that started in real life.
I lived on the floor of the menās gymnastics team when I was in college. Pretty sure a few were interested in me, but it was the early 2000s and I didnāt make a move.
Iāve cycled through quite a few fantasies but the most impactful were thoughts of watching my wife enjoy sec with another man (cuckold) and public group sex with multiple partners.
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