I switch from porn to memory. I’d like to work on expanding this area.
I often fantasise about my wife when I met her. Her breasts were very large and she would tease me all the time. Sadly times change as do our bodies but those early five years were incredible
I always image scenarios but not in the sex act or masturbating, and I used to do it a lot more when I was young. Maybe that could help
I honestly just fantasize about getting to hold and kiss her. Or something more domestic like taking her while she’s cooking. We are long distance so it’s the little things I want more often
I fantasize constantly but I don’t feel they’re healthy. I want them to be strong in sexual moments but I can keep them away and at bay when I’ve got other things to do
She loves sex so much it’s become a job to do different things that I just can’t perform anymore my inner critic has control over me so bad
Not much
I’ve lived a lot of my fantasies which I think sometimes have had slight negativities on my sexual life. I think some of those fantasies could have been kept as fantasies, but it’s fine that I experienced them anyway. I think I now need to think more about specific fantasies that I haven’t done and focus on them.
My fantasies are hard to achieve. The closest I got to realize one of them, it stopped before I got the chance, mostly because I was too proper for being considered a good one time stand.
I want to feel guilt free about fantasies in bed
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They were a part of my life but in a muted way. They weren’t really a part of my relationships.
This is going to change.
Always when going solo. But hard to bring them up during sex. Hoping this exercise will help
I would like to be more open about sexual things to do in the bedroom that ive wanted
right now they aren’t a big part of it but I am gonna work on this for sure.
I also want to feel guilt free about fantasies when I’m with my partner. I do notice us having better sex when I’m not thinking about fantasies. But I just want to be able to get hard and stay hard when having sex with my partner
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I wouldn’t say they play a big part, partly because I feel like I’ve had a low libido recently.
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Just once in a while
Theyre not at all part of my life, but thats because I have very few that can be linked to real situations
When I am with someone I will fantasize what I want to do the next time I see them.