To what extent are sexual fantasies part of your life and relationships?

I think I’d like to open with my wife and talk about her sexual fantasy

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I feel like I informally think of fantasy’s but haven’t really put intention into it. Worth spending some time and trying out.

I have fantasies that really turn me on but make me nervous to actually share. Like watching my wife have sex with someone else. I immediately get hard, but thinking about it and the aftermath or jealously or losing our connection in that makes me nervous to share and more nervous to act on

I fantasize a lot to be honest, and I have shared some with my partner, and it always went well and it has always turned us on.
Something though, I can’t share them, because my fantasy is to fuck someone else, and I feel ashamed… I’m not sure how to talk about that with my partner

We talk about it some but only the ones between us

Trying to discover what to share to open our intimacy up and what will discourage or make her feel uncomfortable.

Not much yet

Making them more part of my life to blend into my real life actions

Not a big part of my relationship but present in life

None

they definitely help me get hard sometimes but a couple of the fantasies I have my partner would be uncomfortable doing in real life

Me and my girlfriend definetly talk about things but we’re long distance and kind of stopped there. I’m moving in with her in a few days and am excited to try a few new things with her woohoo!

Almost none

Not that much but I do enjoy looking back at some

Currently, not really, but I want to make them a part of it, to help my sex life

None

I am developing a bank, but have not yet thought to recall them during sex. This is my next step.

Not really at all

I always fantasize about other women even though I have a partner and this makes me feel guilty but this has helped me understand that this is normal and also not directly ruining my sex life or relationship

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They were with a prior long term girlfriend. Not all of them but many. I want to take part in them again with consistent partners.