i don’t fl it often but i will now tbh
Need to do more of this as it could help
I feel I have a problem with “sexual fantasies” - the ones I currently have make me feel bad and I’ve been uncomfortable doing this activity. However, I understand that creating new fantasies is the way forward.
I like to enjoy sexual fantasies but my issue is getting distracted, usually by looking to see how hard I am. Gotta just focus on the fantasy and the sex and know my penis will follow suit
They allow me to seek in a place of comfort and hornyness and relaxation
Not a big part of my life but I like the idea of building up a bank of fantasies
Very much
My wife being more open about sexual fantasies
I have shared some fantasies with my partner but I want to develep my fanstasy bank
Less shame and just take notice if any fantasy could become problematic
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Build more fantasies and start using them to help sustain my arousal
Not really a part of my life but interested to add to the bank
Never really consciously fantasised beyond just being attracted to someone and thinking what I want to do to them
I fantasise very regularly, especially when I’m by myself in my room, at work, or on public transport - especially when I spot attractive strangers, eventually my mind will almost always go to sex.
I think I have an extremely vivid imagination and fantasising comes very naturally to me. However, I still worry that fantasising to stay aroused during sex is betraying my partner a little and I always feel a it weird doing it.
I’d also love to open up about my fantasies more with my partners but there never seems to be a right time for it. I love fantasising and the fantasies I come up with and would love to share them but still a few barriers there.
A work in progress.
I fantasise a lot, or at least I used to… but this got confused with being “in charge” of what we do in bed as a married couple. We’ve got kids, we have changed… so I get that she is not as up for sex as before we became parents. So I walk a fine line between fantasising fun sexual encounters that I always lead and being terrified of overstepping a boundary. No wonder I’m having ED issues!
I once tried out a fantasy that was very voyeuristic and I overstepped a boundary. I got caught out and it didn’t go well. I felt very ashamed and like I had broken something. She forgave me me and moved on quickly but I think I stopped fantasising and that messed up with how i approached sex.
Consent is all. But good to understand that I can still have those fantasies and not necessarily act them out in real life.
I am incredibly fortunate that my girlfriend is very attractive and bisexual. She has friends and at one point she had her and 2 other girls on me. Certainly a fantasy of mine. The sad part is my dick decided not to work.
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I’d say a little bit, but not as much as I’d like. She’s open to the idea, but I want to continue. I also want to continue having these fantasies in my own head and growing them
I didn’t realize how little I actually fantasize in this way. I like the idea of intentionally capturing fantasies so I can use them later.
I think I’d like to bring them up with my wife and maybe use some talk involving the fantasy. Don’t know how this wil go
My girl is bi sexual. So the door is open for me to talk about other women especially if they are her types. However I feel like I would want to keep most fantasies in my head to use as a pick me up at the right time. Also I need new fantasies Lool