I want it to be more active. Though she’s previously said that she’s “down for anything,” her responses and actions don’t match.
I have sexual fantasies a lot, but not often by myself. Usually when my BF and I are together on call. That’s when we constantly bounce between scenes with each other. I think it’ll be best to learn to think about these by myself as well and make good use of them
I fantasise a lot but struggle to with my partner, I feel too in my head and not in the moment
Certainly some fantasies I have I will and have told my partner about and have put into action, which is absolutely amazing for arousal and satisfaction when you’re actually living out a fantasy, but on the other hand there’s some things in my mind that are too extreme to even think about sharing, so as stated in this course those are the ones that I will keep to myself and that’s what makes them even hotter, because I know how naughty they are, and nobody will ever know
To build a bank of scenes that I can draw from- sometimes it seems blank when I am nerves
I use them to increase desire and help during difficult times during sex
I do it all the time without realising, probably every day, is this normal? I’m always thinking about sexual scenarios
I do it all the time
We’ve both talked about a few we have and have acted on some it has increased our sexual desire for each other I think
Sometimes it’s hard to come up with a new and exciting fantasy in the heat of the moment
I’ve thought of them when I’m bored but I feel like I should try harder to create new ones and build up this fantasy bank.
I’m not the most visually creative person, so it will take some work, but I’m open to anything.
I love thinking about sexual scenarios all the time, even in the airport, when I’m getting a new hair cut, or in the super market.
Dreams that I like to be part of at least once in my life
My inner critic uses sexual fantasy to try to help me during partnered sex. And sexual fantasy when I’m alone makes me feel horny
I’ve used them here and there when making love to my wife. I dream of another hot woman.
Possibly too much fantasising. It is making it hard to have ‘vanilla’ sex and know where the fantasy ends and what we want to do for real
I have many detailed fantasies, but tend to forget about them in the heat of the moment on my own. But they are very helpful when shared and used as dirty talk with accepting partner.
Never really have been, with a partner. Def want to explore this, esp as it increases sexual potency
I dont fantasize nearly as much as i did when i was in my late teens/early 20s. I think i need to do it more though