Quite common
Feel okay to explore my fantasies privately
Not that common
I do it occasionally
It’s rare for me to fantasize, if at all. I have preferences and things I enjoy with my wife but my imagination beyond that is limited.
I do it often!
Fairly common
I worry I over-rely on them during sex and then I feel guilty in the moment, which puts me in my head and takes me out of the sensations in the moment
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Often and I have been lucky enough to play out a couple of the more realistic ones!
I have been doing this with my partner and it has opened up a world of fucking awesome sex.
We share our fantasies, there are a fair few that we have started exploring and some that we don’t, still fun to talk about. We are slowly building a collection of toys and are trying out a dungeon next year. Loads of fun to go.
I often fantasize and share, especially now that we are swingers
They are often necessary for me to orgasm. I sometimes find myself forcing my way into a fantasy to get there even though I am really enjoying myself with my wife
I am the same, I don’t feel guilt about it. But I find myself just trying to finish before she gets bored. So I force myself into a fantasy to get there. Not great
I honestly can’t say I’ve ever fantasized during sex. If I did I was not aware of it or don’t remember it. I’ve always been an “in the moment” kind of lover, concentrating on my partner and myself. Maybe thdd as ya part of my problem?
We’ve both talked about a few but have yet to act on them. I’d like to have the confidence to set one up and would love for her to do the same.
This something I used to think alot about but haven’t thought much on as I’ve gotten older and had less opportunities for sex.
Have a lot of sexual fantasies
I actually have fairly strong sexual fantasies because I usually masturbate to fantasy and only occasionally porn, so I have a few fantasies in my erotic bank already! I’ve fantasized during sex before when I’ve wanted to be more turned on but always felt bad about it. This course has taught me that it’s okay to fantasize during sex and it’s not an insult to your partner - it’s just giving your arousal a little boost.
To use sexual fantasy and maybe even let it be a guide almost
I’ve used fantasies (imagining other people) a few times over the last 10 years or so, usually as an arousal boost but have always felt guilty so it’s good to have some validation from this course that it’s not something to worry about. One thing I’m awkward about is sharing my fantasies with my partner - I’m not sure she would want to hear about other girls