I keep them private
They’re a part of my everyday life. They come to mind reasonably often when I’m out and about and see attractive people.
I have one fantasy that’s the only thing that can get me arroused.
I think they called that an obligatory fetish.
Tend to only have fantasy that exclude my partner. I want to change that
Just in my head lol
They are only for me
Mostly personal but always between myself and my girlfriend exclusively and what we would like to do together. She has joked or half joked at least about having a 3some with another woman as she had a mastectomy and felt I was somehow missing out but it’s honestly not something that bothers me. Sure tits are lovely and all but loyalty is very important to me personally so I don’t want to open that door in our relationship
I have started writting down my fantasies and sometimes share them with my partner.
Sometimes she’s open to them and we play them out, sometimes she’s not.
We talk during intimate moments. Stuff we want to do, that we want to see each other do. Lots of discussions about sharing, threesomes, things like that. Genuinely stuff we want to try
I think i’d like to just discuss more fantasies with my partner
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I keep them mostly to myself but have shared. I’ll share more with my wife
Fantasies are a big part of my life. It’s a nice way to bring around the romantic in the mundane things. I also had fun times in past relationships bringing fantasies in them. It was a good way to shake things up
they’re a big part - tho, i tend not too share them so often. they’re private, in my head - but help engage w/ sex better
They’re not a huge part, but I’m excited to build up my erotic bank. And actually wanting to explore which fantasies or kinks that I might be into - I honestly haven’t tried many
I have fantasies, I just never thought to bank them or put detailed effort into them. I think I rely on porn too much and I’ve gotten lazy with it.
I find fantasizing to get an erection or stay hard during sex is distracting. I prefer being present during sex.
I want to try getting more detailed and intricate with my fantasies.
When I was in a relationship I don’t feel like I ever really fantasized during sex, there wasn’t really much going through my head. Sometimes I wouldn’t be feeling that aroused just from physical sensations and I feel like tapping into an erotic bank could’ve been helpful.
I’ve always felt like I should have more and they should be better defined. Multiple girls have asked “what’s something you’re really into / always wanted to do?” and I never have a hot or engaging answer. It makes me feel a bit boring, underwhelming, and unimaginative as a partner
It brought my relationship to the next level, I wrote out a fantasy I had about taking her one morning and gave it to her as a gift for when we were done working out. It made the next time we got together very fun
It’s great to share because the other partner can refer back to them when you least expect it
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