Recently discovered my wife had cheated. That feeling of resentment is gone and we look forwards now.
What did come out of the chats/arguments was my mood, my lack of energy, loss of spark and so I tested my blood and realised a huge decline in my testosterone in the last five years since last tested. I took action, hit the gym, lost fat gained muscle and above all got my body confidence back.
However the betrayal is my weakness and why I’m here. Losing my erection mid sex and not being able to climax properly is really affecting all my other areas of happiness. My inner critic is the other man. He is there laughing at what he took from me.
Anyway this is day 2 of mojo and I’m feeling positive for better times ahead.
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You’re on the right path so keep up the good work so you can again keep it up!
Leave her… wtf. Have some self respect
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I can that would be a problem. Next time that inner voice comes by to laugh about having taken something from you. Bitch slap that bastard and show him what you took back.
Over the years I have known male and female that cheated on their spouse. It could be that the guy never gave a crap about your wife. There are predators out there that exploit women that are struggling and manipulate them. All they are after is sex. The women that wind up in a picture like this almost never see it until after it is over. Some never see it. Women that get caught up in this often feel used. Once it is over it can have psychological effects on her as well. Sometimes after a relationship like this they find new value and comfort in the man they can count on. The one that really loves and cares for them.
You put a lot of effort into this lady. I do not know you or your wife. I do know myself and my wife. If I were in this situation, I would put every ounce of myself into reclaiming her. She is that good in every way possible. It sounds to me that you feel this way about your wife as well.
I do not know how low your testosterone is. Mine was barely above the acceptable point a couple of years ago. This year it had dropped to just a bit over half what is considered acceptable. My Doctor prescribed Testosterone injections that I give myself weekly. My libido jumped dramatically from not caring at all about sex, to a mind that never stops thinking about sex. Now I just need to be able to get my body to perform up to the level of my libido (and maybe calm down the libido a little…hehehe).