I believe the Erectile Dysfunction that I suffer from is Psychogenic. I joined here to try and find a solution to whatever mental block if any I may have.

I have lived what many would consider an uneventful sex life. There have only be three girls that I have had sex with and I aw now 62 years old.

Two of those three were before I was 18, which is why I call them girls. One of those three I am not even sure I should count because it only occurred one time and we struggled to achieve penetration. The other was a girl I dated for several years in high school. She was orally fixated and I could probably count on one hand the number of times that I had vaginal intercourse with her. I could not tell you the number of times that she performed oral sex. Almost any time we were together, she would find somewhere that she could. The final girl is my wife. This year is 44 years we have been married.

Our relationship like any other has had ups and downs (some of them not in the bedroom). We have stuck with each other through some issues. She went through a period of time suffering with bulimia and anorexia. I went through a period of extremely unhealthy drug and alcohol usage.

Does any or all of that relate to Erectile Dysfunction issues? The orally fixated girl I dated. I would have to say yes that is a problem today more than 40 years later. I cannot lie it was incredible.

Drug abuse. I have no idea how much damage was done by crystal meth. I managed to have a triple bypass before my 60th birthday and I imagine it contributed to the problem. Most likely there are some issues that can be traced back to crystal meth.

I probably have enough THC stored in fat cells to last 3 or 4 lifetimes. I do not know if marijuana contributed to health issues or not. I do know that I am currently using CBD and enjoy the calming effect that it has. Could that be a cause of ED? I do not know.

I do not share all of this because I am not particularly proud of everything in my life. I share it because it has been my journey and I cannot change those things. I do believe that there are others that I might be able to help when they struggle with issues.

I hope to be able to post a success story here and help others on their journey.