My inner critic made me feel like I was a failure, having to do such excercises to try to fix the problem I experience. There were also some thoughts of wishing to get hard through the excercise, but not too intensely.
I started to get hard quickly. As I did, I noticed my inner critic saying “sure, you can get hard now, but no one is here. You’ll never be able to do it if someone else was around.”
Inner critic wants to say it’s not getting hard or bigger….
Felt kind of relaxing, critic didn’t really say much but my own thoughts keeping my head up high, even somethig this simple could help. Towards the end I started getting a little excited by just the confidence.
kind of negative of why I’m doing this
My inner critic reaffirmed and reminded me of my people pleasing tendencies that lead me to put a lot of pressure on my self when interacting with others.
My inner critic reaffirmed and reminded me of my people pleasing tendencies that leads me to put a lot of pressure on my self when interacting with others.
That I still can‘t last long enough, despite being desensualised.
Why can’t you get hard !
Why aren’t you getting hard
Disapproved of my size, appearance
It said that I wouldn’t be able to satisfy someone like someone I know or that being conscious about these issues in the moment would be boring to a potential partner and turn them off
Telling me I got the erection just couldn’t keep it
Just giving me flashbacks to previous sexual encounters that haven’t worked
It was saying this is never going to work for you
Not a problem being soft here alone
The problem is being soft when I want to stay hard with my lady - my inner critic tells me I’m too old to perform sexually as I once did. And I do wonder if I’m using an app designed for younger men with different issues. I get aroused and erect and feel pretty comfortable in my sexual capability to give and receive pleasure in many ways. The erections just don’t last especially in certain positions.
It just felt weird and I kept on telling myself that it will anyway be soft because that’s how it’s always
What if this doesn’t work? Why would this work?
You should be trying to get hard, brought back feelings of previous experiences
The inner critic started questioning about size ans how it looks. I looked at the mirror and challenged the inner critic was a good experience.