The first facing it will be key and pushing past it
It reminds me that I’m not as good at things as other guys. Was never good as sports and won’t last as long in bed.
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Am I even going to make it to intercourse ? Or bust durin foreplay and kill the mood again. What will she think of me
Anxious that I won’t last long enough for her to orgasm, and that she doesn’t enjoy sex, doesn’t want sex
I can make her orgasm all the time, she squirts and orgasms but I feel I don’t last long enough all the time, it ranges from 2 minutes to 15 and I want it to stay around 10 plus.
What you want to do, from experience is jerk yourself of, now not fast keep edging yourself. The more you practice edging the more your longing how long it takes you to cum. That should go a long way. But during foreplay make sure you’re doing most of the work by touching her not the other way around. That is because it takes a women longer to cum before a man. So the more work you do on her the more time she will come before you and allows you not to come during foreplay
I have to say this to all people worrying it cumming to fast, the key is playing with her, make se you rub the clit for a bit then put your fingers here doing a come here motion (like you see in the movies moving the top of your fingers back and forth on the top of her pussy, that makes mine cum then allowing me not to worry about how long I last as I know I’vealready achieved giving her a good time.
I usually finish quickly, but when I did this exercise, that thought didn’t cross my mind.
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He’s very hard on me and makes me intimidated and then I end up giving up
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Anxious that it will be boring missionary, that my wife doesn’t wanted that I will finish too soon.
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Tells me it will be short most of the time, it’s ingrained quite deep having never addressed it in this way before. I can rationalise, I know it’s not always the case and work stress is a big influence that can be mitigated
Short time and probably be quite dissapointing
That I won’t last long and she’ll be disappointed but will be too afraid to tell me how it really was for her.
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That I don’t last long and that she’s going to be disappointed and I have to give her a good time
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Just previous poor performances making me anxious. Not lastingng enough l
That I’m going to finish quickly and it’s going to lead to an awkward situation and me leaving both of us unsatisfied.
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You are going to get an early climax again, and you will come in less than a minute
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I haven’t seen her in 6 months. What should be great, romantic sex won’t be because I’ll get erect too quickly and come in less than a minute
My inne critic is this sinking feeling aroun my diaphragmbats telling me to worry about everything so that it will go right instead of enjoying it.
Fear and shame of not being adequate or not meeting expectations