How we laugh together and share similar thinking patterns.
A connection where we are each others favorite connection, always look for each other, and want to satisfy each other sexually and emotionally.
I need to find ways to connect with her more and be on my phone less.
I’ll commit to being more open to new experiences and ideas generally, not sexually. Where we can connect on things better
Discovery: How we share the same values and goals for our future. We’re so comfortable around each other
Dream: Stability & income for us to be a family together with kid(s). A house for ourselves.
Design: We both need to finish our education and advance in our careers
Destiny: We need to learn to communicate better and solve my ED
How do you discover without then hyper optimizing for what you discover
Dream to have someone that I care about. But that I am not attached to apparently
Myself and my designs. Trust in them and myself
discovery, we have a lot of fun together, similar goals and sexual appetites, very caring for one another
dream, both achieving success in our work and being able to support one another in the process, me being more present and intimate during sex
design, continue with getting clean, exercise and spiritual/mental work on myself, communicating needs and desires more, try this mojo thing out properly and trying to be mindful during sex
destiny, a safe and drug free environment with open communication where the remnants of any sexual addiction and gathered trauma are dealt with compassionately, with my partner understanding i may be desensitised or dissociative but that i am working to change that
Discover: How we learn about ourselves and grow ! And how we both love touch.
Dream: let’s get very intimate to each and enjoy masturbation and orgasm together.
Design: we need to talk opening and learn where we are at our commitment and practice to learn.
Destiny: I’m committed to initiate and make conversations on difficult part. very much open up.
Discover: the emotional connection the shared love language. The laughs and silly fun. Dreaming and planning for the future.
Dream: where we are both unafraid to ask what we want and need from each other and work together to fulfill those desired.
Design: I need to speak up and prioritize my needs as much as I prioritize hers. I need to be in touch with my needs always. Make them known and make them clear. I need to not be afraid to ask and draw out her deeper needs and desires too.
I’m struggling with this. I’m not in a relationship, and I don’t remember my past relationships very fondly. I think I’ll have to come back to this.
Discovery:
Ability to be myself. To see each other honestly.
Dream:
Big house, 3 kids, peaceful mornings together.weekends with family.
Design
I need to be more open and engage in bids for connection.
Destiny
I will check up with my partner
dream: to find someone that i connect to sexually and on a companionship level.
Dream- to have a best friend as a partner and not have to double think abut erection issues
Discovery: Talk openly about everything.
Dream: Have positive feelings, fall in love, have deep connection, have sex, enjoy the moment, enjoy time together, travel the world, have a family
Design: Stop overthinking
Destiny: Grounding techniques, medical check up, get a therapist
Discovery: There is always some verbal and physical playfulness.
Dream: There is always an adventure to go on, and we’re both often ready to explore it.
Design: I need to chill out and cut stress out of my life. I need to expand my desire to communicate and utilize my relaxation tools.
Destiny: I need to use my resources for calming down, whether it be my multivitamins, incense, candles, music, audio books, etc. I need to control my stress and avoid letting it control me.
Discovery: we are always very sweet amd tender to each other and we both know we would do absolutely anything for one another
Dream: I want us to have a kind of relationship where we can always know what we’re thinking or how we’re feeling. Even if we go through something the other can’t imagine, just acknowledging and being emotionally there for each other is more than enough
Design: I need to be able to comfortably talk about anything amd everything with her. All my worries and fears otherwise I’ll feel like she’ll never truly understand me
Design: I have to get over my fear of discussing those heavy worries and concerns that I have and trust that she will be there for me no matter what problems I have
DISCOVERY: Comprehension, company, tenderness and laugh
DREAM: Create a bond that lasts and that is meaningful for both of us
DESIGN: I need to be less dependent and improve my sex game
DESTINY: I commit to working on my things daily
Discovery: we can have a lot of fun and share great moments together.
Dream: we need to reconnect on a more regular basis, not just in crisis time or when we have alone time together
Design: I need to be more proactive with our relationship. Create more meaningful moments together
Destiny: we already had those discussions. We are on the same page, but doing it is often difficult, we should remind ourself, maybe have some objectives
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