When we joke around and play with each other.
Being with her forever, and having a healthy understanding relationship.
Must communicate more with her and be more open minded.
I need to let her knew of my difficulties
Discovery: full acceptance of who I am
Dream: being on the same page about long term goals. Feeling attracted and attractive
Design: look for people that are open minded and don’t turn away from weird aspects
Having someone to work through stuff with. A partnership.
Our best part is that we cover each others weaknesses with our strengths.
I want to have the best sex life possible with my wife because we are together forever and she deserves the best.
I need to get out of my own head and stop worrying about how good I am or hard I am. If I can become a more confident person I can see a lot changing.
I’ll keep working on these courses and working out regularly to make sure I am the best version I can be for my wife.
The best part of our past has been the way we hav supporte each other’s healing and brought play and joy back into each others life.
We imagine a future where that play might be our joint occupation - where we are less affected day to day by our past and we explore the world with wonder.
We have to start practicing that today. It doesn’t need to be somewhere else ina different time or place, we can start now and watch it grow as we make space for it.
The best parts of relationships are the connection you get to share with someone, sharing love and living your lives together.
I dream of a balanced relationship where we both take care of each other and when there is an imbalance due to life that both I and my partner can easy transition between roles and support each other when necessary. We love to spend time together and bond over shared activities
To get myself there I need to be better about the partners I chose and I how I also handle myself in the relationship. While relationships take two people to work, having the forethought and timeout in to who is best for you shouldn’t be ignored
I’m in therapy heavily addressing those issues now as well as this app for sex therapy so I hope with time, hard work, and dedication I can achieve my goals of being in a balanced loving relationship and I have an easier time managing or even getting rid of my ED issues
Discovery: knowing that someone has your back; being able to confide in another person and have them confide in you; share life experiences; sexual bonding
Dream: having a partner that is stable, mature, inquisitive, and aware
Design: processing my own traumas and blindspots so that I can be a healthy partner and also be able to attract healthy partners
Destiny: therapy, journaling, being courageous in having difficult conversations
Discovery: having each other’s back.
Dream: having a partner with whom I can share anything in a healthy way and vice-versa, with whom I can laugh, smile and be a kid.
Design: understanding and working on my own issues.
Destiny : working on my sex issues via therapies, exercises. Talking to my partner openly about that.
DISCOVERY: we love each other, we support each other, we’re very affectionate to each other, we show up to each others’ events, we’re comfortable with each other. we make jokes with each other
Dream: We last together, get married, have kids, still continue being the lovey dovey honeymoon couple
Best parts of relationship are joy and trust. I imagine that being spending quality time together and being very emotionally invested in each other. I don’t really know how to bring the emotional investment into my relationship since my partner doesn’t communicate or understand her emotions well
discovery: the humour my partner and I share, the trust we have for one another. A partner that i can confide in.
Dream: we become partners then get married, settle down and have children.
Design. Understanding the issues I have and making a plan to fix them.
i need to improve my self-confidence and work on my issues. Through self-help, therapy, or finding hobbies that make me a better person.
Discovery: She and I are really connected on a deep level. We love to be around with each other. Her presence in my life makes me better and I do make her life better to.
Dream: I live to live together with her and travel a discover new places. Build a sense of community and change things around.
Design: We need to work on our current emotional and economic situation. Como to terms with future expectations on having children or not
Destiny: I think we can be more open and sincere with each other and what we are feeling
Discovery: We have each other’s backs. We are a team and take care things and face challenges together.
Dream: Becoming financially independent. Spending more time on hobbies and family and making ourselves and the world better.
Design: I need to work on self-talk and self-esteem. I’m a good person doing good things. Give myself some grace when I fail. Spend my time investing in my partner and us instead of just my work.
Destiny: Keep working on myself. Practice being patient and forgiving. Respond to bids and talk more about how I feel.
Discovery: We cab be very open and communicate our problems and listen to what we have to say.
We are both honest to each other, and we build the relationship on that base
Dream: I want a relationship in where we can enjoy every single thing of being together, laugh, relax and all of the emotions, I want this to be a relationship where I can say I feel this is my home
Design: I think me being more open and ask him to be more expressive with his feelings, sometimes I feel like he is a bit afraid of being 100% himself
Destiny: I’ll start by asking him more about what he feels and wants too for our relationship, I know I’m not perfect so he might want me to be more expresive or something
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Discovery: I love the feeling of having someone who will offer support and love when I need it. And I love any time I can help my wife feel the same way.
Dream: My wife and I will push each other to enjoy the wonderful experiences that the world offers us, and I’ll be able to consistently approach sex from an excited and playful point of view.
Design: We need to force ourselves to get out more, and I need to continue my work with Mojo. We recently made a big move and are slowly availing ourselves of the great opportunities in our new city.
Destiny: We can hold each other accountable for our goals.
Discovery: Comfortable with each other. Know each other’s feelings and worries. Know what our hopes for the future are. Work well together but also both independent. Prepared to be vulnerable in front of each other. Work to not take each other for granted.
Dream: Even more trust. Never overthinking where we both are at. Deeper understanding of what makes each other tick.
Design: be more open about what we’re feeling at the time we feel it. Being more candid about our likes and dislikes as they change over time. State our intent when talking about ‘tough’ topics.
Destiny: set aside time for us, not in social settings but spaces where we can both be present and talk. When we do that we often find ourselves growing but we never make dedicated time for them - they just happen every now and again.
Discovery: We care for each other, very affectionate, have fun together by being silly, listen to each other
Dream: to trust each other so that we can honestly voice challenges and overcome them together. To be more intimate and have sex regularly. To deeply appreciate the good and bad in each other and to share experiences.
Design: i need to communicate about issues openly to build trust and get used to each others way of solving them. I need to listen and be attentive and understanding, take responsibility for my own problems and take action to overcome them whilst asking for support where necessary.
Destiny: I will commit to doing that by being mindful of issues and expressimg them as soon as possible in a calm, team focused manner. I will need the reassurance of my partner that it’s ok for it to take me a little while to get last this and her participation in my journey.
Her being able to communicate her needs is making our relationship better. We could fall deeper in love. This could be done by us connecting more.
Discover: we make each laugh, eat food and vent to one another. We listen to each other.
Dream: To live with her and have a family, children, follow God and never lose interest.
Develop: working on that and the other part.
Discovery - the best part of the relationship is that no matter what happens we deal with it together
Dream - the best future is to have lots of sex, try new positions, watch porn together
Design - need to communicate more with my wife about my sexual desires, about trying new positions and watching porn together
Destiny - I will commit to it by looking to the communication bids, being more mindful for such cues that will make the bonds stronger