I’ve a positive story to tell!
But before I do let’s go back to when I started having issues in the bedroom!
So I suppose I was late bloomer in this field but I’d say I didn’t first full on sexual intercourse experience till I was 22/23. The night it happened it was just one night stand thing, a great night out with the lads and met this lovely girl and one thing lead to another and lone behold I got her back the hotel - game on😃 or at least I thought…
So ya bit of kissing, finger painting and then after a bit we got down to business. But didn’t go to plan
I Had felt really excited but then more nervous and just couldn’t get hard enough. Tried for a bit but just gave up. Your one didn’t really mind too much as we were both fairly bate. So it didn’t bother me too much at the start but it was their at the back of my mind, a bit most days…
Just to jump on a bit, the next few encounters through the years were the same with one or two bad experiences not helping my confidence. It was often on my mind now everyday for a few minutes here and there affecting my mood, bringing me down and putting in a bad head space. I didn’t know what to do🙈
There were times were I had great nights out and got talking to birds and got back to there place and we’d be talking for a bit but in the back of my mind I was dreading the bedroom or whatever. There were times in fairness I had good fun with foreplay and would then be invited to begin intercourse. But literally my mood would just change, confidence would nose dive, literally it was the last place I wanted to be…so uncomfortable
Down through the years I would get off on BJ’s from birds or HJ’s and I would pleasure them so we both got something.
Had gone to the doctor about it, they prescribed me Viagra. Think I tried it a few times no success with drink and one night stands.
Jumping on again, I had been going on dates through the years but nothing steady. But in 2021 I had met this girl and it was going really well and went on a right few dates. 3rd or 4th date it was D-Day but sure enough it happened again. Of course I didn’t say anything to her about it beforehand but to fair she was grand about it. We met up again but only something casual and we’re to meet up again for a proper night but literally last minute she broke it all off. It hurt now🙈 blamed myself for obvious reasons. Even though she said that wasn’t the reason.
I was back to square one again. Starting doing more research again, got another appointment with a doctor told I had performance anxiety…like I didn’t know that and prescribed me Viagra. Didn’t even bother with it.
Found this thing called Mojo😲
Tried the free trial for the week or two whatever it was. Was happy enough with it, so got for the next few months.
Starting doing the exercises and meditation for the first few weeks and listening other people’s stories. Helped so much, took so much weight off me. Like I could breath again, I wasn’t the only one😌
So I had good success but found it hard to keep doing the exercises and meditation in a out of it weeks at a time due to work and what not. At the same time I was still dating but nothing steady. I felt I needed someone solid to get over this.
Lucky enough I did meet this girl I really liked, the second date I managed to come up with the courage to tell her about the issue I was having in the bedroom. But she was 100% about it and said she was too a nervous enough person in the bedroom.
Didn’t happen the first time which annoyed me but we tried again after another night different weekend and yes SUCCESS
I’m 29 now that was some struggle from 22/23 but I solved it in just 7/8 months.
Hope this gives everyone the encouragement to keep trying.
Thanks Mojo for all the help