Hi guys. I felt the need to share this. After a sexless marriage, where my wife wouldnât come anywhere near me, we broke up. About 9 months later, I met another girl. I quickly found out that I had ED. I blame this on my marriage. My new partner was less than understanding and would sulk when I couldnât perform. It made matters a LOT worse, so much so that I ended up avoiding any chance of sex.
Fast forward 18 months and we broke up. Four weeks ago, I met another girl. We connected instantly. I was honest with her from the word go about my ED. She was totally cool and understanding. Because of this, my confidence in bed is coming back rapidly. We had great sex the other night and the following morning. My cock was harder than itâs been in a LONG time.
I suppose the reason Iâm writing this is to highlight how, in a lot of cases, ED is largely psychological. But with the right partner/ set of circumstances, you can get back to where you want to be.
Good luck to all of you and donât give up. I nearly did, but I made the move to be honest with my girl and itâs paid off.
Congrats on the win! 
Nice work brother!!!
Similar situation. 23 yr marriage to frosty the snow wife!
New lady 7 mo ago. Totally up front with her. I even had gone and got tested for stds and sent a sperm sample to confirm my vasectomy was still good before I started dating again.
During marriage I played solo a lot. With porn. Daily. To the point I canât finish anywhere but my own handâŚ.(deathgrip)
Sheâs super supportive and encouraging.
Weâve talked about itâs not HER problem but there are ways she might be able to help:
Talking naughty or direct. (Kinda taking control?) the other morning she asked me to finger her while she used a toyâŚâŚ
I have ped also- I can get 70% hard and sex ids possible but no way can I finish. Sheâs content to go down then try to finish me with a handy or watch and encourage me to finish myself. She loves to watch and I fantasize sheâs forcing me to JO for her entertainmentâŚ.
Seems to workâŚ
Good luck man!!
Hope all continues to get better, my friend.
Yep, I relied on porn too much during my failing marriage. So much so that I fear my inability to get hard during sex was down to my âdeath gripâ over the years. If porn is something you want to distance yourself from, I recommend Easy Peasy. It worked for me. I havenât watched porn for many weeks and donât miss it. Iâm convinced this has helped me get hard again with my woman. Best of luck, brother.
I quit porn and solo about 90% on my own. Usually only indulge myself like after Iâve been with gf and havenât managed to finish or when I know I wonât see her for a couple daysâŚ. Donât want it to affect my chances of being successful with her!