I have suffered three years with psychological ed with my gf soon to be wife. She waits for me to get hard and then we have penetrative sex. It has been working fairly well and she doesn’t think I even have a problem. If I don’t perform she says no worries we will try again. For me though I sometimes don’t get hard or stay hard, and it is mostly due to me being in my head. I have therapy and use mojo. I have no other issues in life and love my wife very much. It is not consistent it works for a month then I may have a failure to get erect. I think quitting porn helped me focus on getting more erect with wife. I dont have much issues masturbating. I guess all this to say it’s a journey and I will keep trying. Thank you for reading
4 Likes
Good luck. My story is similar, with an equally supportive wife. We watch occasional porn together, nothing hardcore and normally together. We both, very very occasionally watch it solo.
Mojo may have helped me accept ED better, but not sure it has improved the situation. I’ll give it another few weeks before moving on
Same for me. Have cut out porn and I believe it’s helped. Unfortunately my fiancé moved out because she has lost her love for me due to my ED. I am working as hard as I can to get right and get her back but it’s difficult not being able to gauge my progress without a supportive partner
1 Like