Answer the 4Ds and share how you’re going to get the bond you want

Discovery: What are the best parts of your relationship? If you’re not in a relationship, what are the best parts of relationships in general?

Dream: What’s the best future you can hope for? Think about what you will do day-to-day. Don’t settle for a simple description like, “happy”.

Design: What needs to change to get you there? Practically what steps do you need to take? What positives can you expand?

Destiny: How might you commit to that? What kind of support do you need to accomplish your preferred future?