My gf and I were about to have sex in the morning and she stopped during foreplay to feed her cats which I guess is fine. However I started thinking about cats and that’s obviously not sexy, which made me soft, leading to a soft penis. I started panicking and tried to get back in the mood by kissing her body and curves. She then tried to touch my soft meat and I instinctively swiped her hand away cause I had this feeling of her feeling like me being soft would make her be judge mental. We talked about it and she was confused by it and that no guy ever told her that. Am I alone? I am in my head immensely but I don’t feel like my feeling is uncommon…
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Dude are you walking around with a hard dick every second? You aren’t no? It’s a flaccid penis women know are dicks get soft it’s not a crime bro in fact ALOT of women like watching us rise
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Your feelings on this are normal and understandable. I also feel that if it’s not getting bars from them touching it fairly quickly it’s not likely to happen so it bothers me when they keep trying, which makes me think of what they are thinking even more.
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I can see that. Idk I feel porn has made me believe women just don’t like that. Stupid, I know.
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Yes! It’s a easy to fall into that consistent thought process.
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are you sure she wasn’t trying to give you a BJ to get you hard again? Relax. Ask her to blow you if she doesn’t instinctively initiate on her own.