I get hard when my girlfriend is touching my cock and stay hard during hand and head jobs, but as soon as I go inside her, I pump for a while and it gets soft. I cannot stay hard and now I think about it every time. I don’t seem to feel much sensation in my cock when I’m penetrating or something. I get it from BJs and handjobs!
It’s really starting to impact our relationship! It sucks.
Same exact thing with me man. One thing that I’ve been learning about myself is that I get too caught up in spectatoring, and wanting to do good. Tell that inner critic that you’re worth good sex regardless of how you do!
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Same with me
I have had this issue. I think it sounds like you are spectatoring when you are having sex and perhaps you worry you aren’t in control. What I try and do is remind myself that I WANT to be having sex in that moment. It’s all about being in the moment, and once you are in your head it’s hard to find your way out, but it is possible. I’d highly recommend meditation practices to work on this, the concepts of meditation really translate well to these issues too
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