Why do you want to be more mindful during sex?

❓ Course questions
583

I want to be in control of the voice in my head

584

Because teorically, sex is meant for that. Not a test, not a competition… only enjoyment.

585

I too want to enjoy the process more. I want to savour it personally and connect with my wife better.

586

I want rid of spectatoring. I even do it when masturbating. Such a nuisance. Also want a heightened level of giving and receiving pleasure and greater ability to connect with another guy.

587

The worry is making me anxious and afraid of the encounters in case I can’t live up to expectations, feeling of intimidation. I want to be mindful so that I can be there with her and let this relationship grow

588

Mindful of the fun of sex and the stimulation of love and touch. Rather than mindful of the internal critic or self assessment of performance.

589

To shut out my inner critic and to actually enjoy the sexual experience

590

To shut out my inner critic and to be able to enjoy more of the sexual experience

591

I want to savor every second of sex that I’m engaged in. It’s a sacred act of extreme pleasure. I don’t want to overlook that.

592

I want to have sex and not worry about other things or the thought of getting it up. Enjoying sex regularly and be less critical of myself

593

I want to enjoy it more. I want to feel more.

594

To be present, to enjoy every second

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So I can enjoy it more and be in the moment

596

To enjoy the connection with my partner rather than spending more time thinking about whether the old boy is going to behave

597

its about connection for me, and being more mindful means I can connect with my partner instead of being in my own head.

598

Becasue i want to experience the full blown sexual experience not a half way experience

599

I want to be able to have experiences, not performances. I want the experience to guide me through sex, not a playbook in my head stressing me out

600

I want to be more mindful during sex so that I enjoy it more - get out of my head and into the pleasurable feelings in my body

601

I want more of a connection. I want to have an emotional connection and not just pleasure.

602

So that I can focus more on and tune into positive feels, while simultaneously dealing with any negative thoughts in a more healthy manner.