Has porn ruined my erections and making cum too quick
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In my opinion, porn doesn’t help at all. Bin it, or start tapering it off. Instead of the usual porn Barbie doll, think of your girlfriend, she’s the one you want to stay hard for.
I’m thinking the same thing, and have tried really hard to stop porn altogether. I’m good for about a week and half, to two weeks but if me and the wife haven’t been physical, the need to watch it, let steam off or just fill the overwhelming urges takes over.
I feel it’s hugely damaged my confidence, as obviously all the blokes are hung, and makes you feel like your tiny, worthless and wouldn’t possibly be able to fulfil a woman. I’ve tried just sticking with lesbian porn too, but overall I think none of it is good. I want to be confident, stay hard and last as long as I need, but fear takes over, I’ll be soft, so try and force it then only last seconds. These issues have always been there, undoubtedly due to an abuse when I was 7, made me think that someone doing something to you makes you gay. I know this isn’t true but somehow it always comes back to haunt me, and when things don’t work with me and my wife, the negative voice comes in.
I’m going to follow this app and hopefully good things will happen. If I can please my missus then I think my confidence will return like it was in previous years