My cousin’s husband, Eli. I think my cousin is great, but she was a party animal when she was younger. She ended up pregnant with his baby, and Eli stepped up to provide. He went from working at red lobster, to becoming a financial manager, so he could provide a home for my cousin and their now 3 kids. He is a very steady person and has inspired me to get my act together so one day I can be A provider as well
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David Goggins. He overcame himself
A man who endured everything from a violent abusive upbringing in dysfunction and poverty, racial discrimination, obesity, and overcame it all by bettering himself one second, one minute, one hour, one day, and one year at a time. He did it scared, he did it alone, he did it without help, but he overcame himself.
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Aragorn
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One of my teachers, he always seemed to be confident but not overly so. He showed emotions at times without coming across overly emotional and always seemed to care about those around him
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Dwayne Johnson (the rock)
Failed as an NFL player but tried something else
I sadly would have to say I don’t have any male role models, I haven’t had the best exposure to what I would envision as a role model, likely impacting my current issues
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My wife’s father. Extremely intelligent, always making sure the family is going to church on Sunday, selfless, great public speaker, hard working, confident, and many other things, always the best at putting work aside when spending time with family, and many other things. He’s a true gentleman. My wife told me she reminds me of her father, which is one of the reasons why she said yes to marrying me. So I hope one day that I can be just like him.
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My grandad, always seemed a strong man who provided for my Nan, cared for her and looked after her. This is how I (on reflection) treat my wife.
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My old friend Pete. He is like a brother, but I always looked up to him and wanted to be like him.
My dad. He’s always there for his family and he cares so deeply
I think my older cousin I love the way he treats his family such a family man really admire the way he loves the people around him
My male role models have all been father/older brother figures. Ones that have guided me, encouraged me, set me up for success, helping me feel comfortable in my own skin.
My best friend. Like me he has endured a lot in recent years but he is always happy and positive in his perspective.
I admire the people in my life who follow their dreams, and who release the creativity within themselves. None of them would fit an archetypal alpha male role.
I admire quiet confidence
My brother. Despite all his hardship he has found his happy ending. Still can stand on his 2 feet but makes time for the family, girlfriend & others around him
Jurgen Klopp - he is who he is and says what he thinks, and he leads his team by protecting them, but does so with jokes and charisma. And when things are too much, he knows when to stop. He’s a legend because he’s so authentic
My dad. He struggles day to day with emotions and his work, yet he still only wants to take care of his family. I admire selflessness.
I look up to Mike & Craig. They are confident in what they do & don’t change a thing about themselves for the world.
I have one friend who lives his life completely on his own terms. He is single which makes it easier, but he is happily so. And when’re I spend time with him I feel better about myself and the world.