What's one thought you can reprogram today? (early climax-dedicated thread)

sound-copper-silverfish · May 8, 2025, 9:34pm

That I’ll never feel connected to my cock

established-lime-tarantula · May 8, 2025, 10:53pm

Feeling ashamed and like a failure cuz I can’t stay hard

favourite-turquoise-galliform · May 9, 2025, 1:57am

Thinking that it guaranteed that I’ll fail.

organic-gray-beaver · May 9, 2025, 2:17am

I won’t have a strong enough boner

raspy-moccasin-ocelot · May 9, 2025, 2:43am

I will put my partner down can’t get erection runs through my mind

shiny-yellow-flea · May 9, 2025, 5:28am

I’m never going to have normal sex again

normal-teal-gayal · May 9, 2025, 6:58am

I’m gonna fail with partner again because I don’t deserve her

mechanical-sapphire-flyingfish · May 9, 2025, 10:16am

As soon as I try to put the condom on, my penis will stop getting hard and I will panic

liable-peach-deer · May 9, 2025, 1:24pm

During foreplay, I don’t feel hard enough and think I’ll lose it by the time penetrating starts

geographical-turquoise-asp · May 9, 2025, 5:38pm

Hesitant to initiate because I don’t want to disappoint or fail

zippy-coffee-pigeon · May 9, 2025, 6:12pm

As soon as I penetrate I will need to stop or cum. My partner will be dissatisfied.
I know if I take a moment. Laugh and relax I can gain control.

qualified-amaranth-jackal · May 9, 2025, 9:53pm

If I have sex I will climax quickly as I get over excited.
If I slow down, take a breath and relax I know from past experience I can last longer

lost-tomato-antlion · May 10, 2025, 6:26am

During foreplay I’ll be so focused on getting hard that I’ll psych myself out before penetration

muddy-jade-thrush · May 10, 2025, 10:33am

Sex is a burden, and its hard for me. Of course because of it I dont initiate enough which my partner does not like. Which makes me feel even more bad.

sore-salmon-cricket · May 10, 2025, 1:34pm

My partner is no longer interested in me

well-jade-catfish · May 10, 2025, 4:55pm

I overthink maintaining an erection, so eventually I will lose it.
Not that it’s happened, I need to get it back up before my partner gets upset at me

attractive-red-narwhal · May 11, 2025, 1:48am

I think porn has a huge role in my negative thoughts. If I watched porn I question if I’ll be able to have sex because all you hear about is how porn ruins sex so it has become self fulfilling for me

head-white-gull · May 11, 2025, 5:55pm

During foreplay when I couldn’t up, I would translate the disappointed look on her face as ‘I am a disappointment’.
The reality is that she might be disappointed at the experience or herself or even me for this time. Whatever she is feeling, it shouldn’t mean that ‘I am a disappointment’.
How can I be a disappointment with all the great stuff i am doing in my life? Is it normal to expect me to be perfect in everything? If yes, then that is not human. I am a human and I can be imperfect and fail in some stuff coz that is how I learn and get better. So y am I over reacting to this specific aspect. Why am I translating it to ‘I am a disappointment’.

I am just a perfect human with some flaws that I am working on.

academic-white-canid · May 11, 2025, 8:37pm

“She’s ashamed of me”

ytterbic-peach-centipede · May 12, 2025, 3:12pm

Putting pressure on myself to get hard