It has proven very difficult. I need get stronger and have the conversation much earlier
She like it when we climax together
It’s best to discuss possible solutions to the issues, rather than the issues alone. My partner seem to be only concerned with what would be helpful for me to get and stay hard I noticed. And it worked out for us both. I got hard and had a decent orgasm after our prior conversation about what I wanted to help get me fully aroused.
I could be more open with my partner. Like “hey I’m still having some anxiety around being able to last more than a couple of minutes, but I really want to try and connect tonight and see where it goes”. Versus keeping it all to myself and trying to push though it.