Very tough topic, you know they are expecting sex.
tricky
Was in a relationship and she was understanding from the first moment, really calmed me down and things got 10x better! Wish I had this app at the time to better understand and explain my situation instead of taking it so bad on the occasions it did fail. Tbh it only started to fail once she started to pull away from the relationship… but she has commitment issues i was aware off going into the relationship but thought nothing of it. They got the best of her and she made things confusing for us and my problem started to reappear as a result of losing confidence in her. Now back to square one and really want to hit the ground running with my next relationship. This app is doing wonders
Prior to getting intimate I feel like its a bit of a downer to talk about erectile issues. I’m in a 2 year long relationship now and I still feel its hard to communicate about this issue. I feel like if I say it then it becomes real. I don’t want to put it in my head that I might fail, but I already have those thoughts in my head so I don’t see how talking about it can get any worse
I usually have this shame of things of the past . But im more focused on becoming better and genuine . I always depend on porn .but now im able.to get it hard and enjoy it . I try to be good to my self and not bed bad bout my as a judgement throughout .
Sexual incompatibility was big factor in a recent break up between myself and my long term partner. I am in my day to day a very communicative person, but as I have started dating the worry about how to tell new partners about the issues I’m working on has stressed me. This course helped a lot.
It can be awkward. I’ve had mixed responses from partners but it shouldn’t be so black and white! This isn’t about shaming them or yourself it’s about a blank slate and opening up to your partner can really help. Once you get over the initial fear of shame or embarrassment
Nervous, Shameful, like a weak failure. That being said, I’ve started talking about it and is has gone really well, the sex we’ve had in the past 2 weeks has been some of the best in our 4 years of dating.
Nervous and like i need to take extreme ownership for it not to be a turn off
Nervous bu it’s getting easier
Nervous but excited
I try it and it works, but I know she is getting despetate for a complete penetration and it makes me feel more anxious. I try to share this feelings
I will be honest, the idea of talking intimately about this with a partner does make me nervous. But reviewing this lesson makes me understand the importance of being upfront, and honest with whatever girl I meet in the future I believe in the benefit of doing this and so, I will make an effort to try it the next time I am in a relationship
I feel fine
Can’t all abou it partner isn’t understanding
Talking about it sets expectations and takes the pressure off. Just hard to get the conversation started!
I did told him about it after a few dates, I wanted him to know it’s something that might happen sometimes and that It has nothing to do with him or that he did something wrong. He was really supportive and now he knows I do Mojo and I’m happy to see I did the right thing by telling him.
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I’m not certain I could talk directly. Would most women be understanding? Or just think there’s something wrong because it’s an expectation us guys should be able to flick a switch on erections at will?
I’ve always had a problem talking about my issues with anyone since I was a child and betrayed not only by my dad, but also the therapist my dad thought I needed to see. Every time I talked about me, my dad would say, you need to think about others, you’re not the only person in this world. My therapist told me whatever I said would stay in the room and Noone else would know, then over heard him telling my dad everything I had said. So now communication with a loved one is hard because I still hear my dad saying, it’s not about you. Listening to these videos and understanding where it’s coming from is helpful and I’m going to try harder to talk to my girlfriend about us. I’m 53 and just learning
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Comfortable