What would you say to someone who has experienced erection issues for the first time?

It’s completely normal and your not alone. You will overcome your erection issues

Don’t feel ashamed it is common to have periods in life when things don’t function perfectly all the time.

I would tell them that I had experienced the same thing, and that there are many others that have as well. I’d also ask them if they engage with a lot of pornography and self-pleasure, as this is a major issue. If so, I would then direct them to yourbrainonporn.com for the science on it and also accounts of people overcoming it. I’d also recommend signing up to Mojo, as pills do not work in the majority of these cases. Finally I would let them know that I am here for them if they want to talk again about it.

If your on here, you are catching things befor they can get worse. This is just a hiccup and now you will have the tools to redirect yorself if it happens again

I think it’s very hard to focus on being in the moment to try cancel out the negative thoughts whilst also concentrating on your partner. I hope that I can learn to control these negative thoughts in my head better so they don’t affect my body like they have been doing.

Don’t give up, it’s not going to be solved over night it’s going to take hard work and dedication but you’ll get there with the right practice!

Relax man, i struggle as well. Try not to worry too much, and check out meditation

It happens to everyone. It has happened to me multiple times. Don’t overthink it. There’s nothing wrong with you.

You’re not alone and its perfectly normal for your body to react this way. Be kind to yourself and remember that no one can judge as harshly as you judge yourself.

Communication and action are important. Accept that you need to learn something new, refocus on whats pleasurable and take your time.

There’s resources out there. There’s help, you are not alone.

Be kind to yourself.

Erection issues are common, and many men have them. There is not something wrong with you. There is so much you can do to grow and face this issue.

it’s most likely a one off so don’t worry

Don’t bottle it up and tell other people. It is easy for it to spiral out of control.

That it is completely normal and nothing to be ashamed of or dwell on. There are lots of reasons why that can happen to us and the best thing to do is focus on relaxing and being present with your partner.

It’s extremely common and doesn’t make you any less of a man.

Hey man it’s happen to me many times I know how you felt about it all.

Not a problem,mate! I’m so privileged you’ve told me because I’ve gone through the same problems and am working through them with Mojo. Don’t worry about it. It’s perfectly normal and it’s not something you should work through on your own. Either start discussing it with your partner or discuss it some more with me or, even better, look into Mojo for yourself and I’ll be here for you if you have any more questions. Never be alone with your problem because we all go through the same things one way or another. The forums on Mojo made that patently clear to me. There are, literally, thousands of us participating in discussions about the different issues we all experience. It so tremendously reassuring. Check it out!

I have been there. It sucks but it was also the catalyst for some deeper work around sex and pleasure that led to better, more enjoyable sex!

Don’t stress out too much! It’s only temporary and it can easily be fixed :blush:

don’t get too down in the dumps about it. Educate yourself on why it has happened and act on the reasons, but don’t too much pressure on yourself in doing that

It really is all in your head